Why is everyone so anti-weddings?!?! I don't get it. One minute, I think that I have the full support from everyone, and then the next thing that I know, people are knocking it as if its something as simple as to what to have for dinner. My feelings are at stake here when people...my friends...say otherwise to this choice that I have made...I'm hurt.
I've been with the guy for four years now...four years straight! None of this off-again on-again crap, straight four years of dedication to one another and people are asking me if I really know him well enough to go and spend the rest of our lives together. I wish that I could sort these feelings out and just tell these people how I really feel and to shut up because I can't stand the way I feel. I'm going to marry him no matter what, and there isn't anything that people can say or do to change that...but I can lose some (who I thought) great friends though...and I don't want to do that either. People really need to start respecting my decisions and learn whens the right time to shut the fuck up.
I've been with the guy for four years now...four years straight! None of this off-again on-again crap, straight four years of dedication to one another and people are asking me if I really know him well enough to go and spend the rest of our lives together. I wish that I could sort these feelings out and just tell these people how I really feel and to shut up because I can't stand the way I feel. I'm going to marry him no matter what, and there isn't anything that people can say or do to change that...but I can lose some (who I thought) great friends though...and I don't want to do that either. People really need to start respecting my decisions and learn whens the right time to shut the fuck up.