nebel

I grew up close to St. Clair Ave. and several many years ago they ripped up the streets to the dirt to install new storm sewers and in the process they tore up all the streetcar tracks that they had just paved over many moons ago. It literally brought a tear to my eye. What ever happed to those good ol' Days? And also growing up in that neighborhood I can safely say grand ol' days has never been much to get exited about.

I take it my rant and rave didn't help at all. Oh well. I tried. I wonder if I could help make you feel any better? If there's anything I can do, from ice cream to a movie to a one on one roller derby, let me know, ok?

.oh im not gone just yet..i havent spent a christmas with my family here in six years so im stickin around till jingle bells is over..ill be in for a new malt soon..chocolate with extra chocolate..sorry you had to toss the other one. i fuckin hope youre doin the fuckin best!..have a great fuckin day!

Oh, sweetie, I'm so sorry to hear that.

Read carefully, I've subjected myself to this kind of shit quite a bit in my life and I know a thing or two about it. Even still, I might make an ass out of myself here, but understand I have good intentions.

First of all... Your ex is hurting because he was either in love with you or in love with the time he got to spend with you. It wasn't right for you, for whatever reason, so you made a change. Now he's having a hard time being able to think straight, probably because you're on his mind a lot and he misses you so bad it hurts him in the chest. Perhaps he is crying a lot.

He feels sad and alone and he doesn't want to feel that way. He is not emotionally strong enough to be friends with you. Not when your pressence made him feel the way he did. It's scary for him to not be with you that way - even scarier to be with you, but in a different way, knowing your feelings for him have changed.

But you did the right thing. If he was not the one for you, you cannot flinch in the face of doubt, you did the right thing. He was happy with you because of his attitude when he was around you. Surely, you helped facilitate his joy, but now he's sad because of his attitude as well. Let him go through this pain and let him go.

I know it's hard and I'm not saying you can't miss him and be a little sad that he's so sad right now. On the contrary, it says you have a heart and a general concern for others.

Sometimes you have to choose between hurting someone and really hurting someone. It's a hard lesson of life to learn. Being nice is a luxury and it's relative. Being honest, true and reliable as an honest and straightforward person, that's a philosophy you can stick to for life. It's not always pretty, but you build strength of character that way.

Give him a guiltless goodbye. And try to give him some optimism, too. That way, he'll have a hard time being self-destructive, which is how he's being when he says stuff like that.

Say, "OK, I'll let you go. I never meant to hurt you, ever. I hope you feel better soon. Good luck in life, I know you'll succeed in whatever it is you do. If one day, long from now, you ever want to say hello, find me. I'll be happy to see you again. Take care and be strong. With love, Nebel."

Of course, use your real name. I always wanted my exes to say that to me when they broke my heart. But be warry. He's giving you more of a guilt trip than you deserve, I think.

But it's injustice for you to let yourself hurt over him any more. He should join you in happiness and in moving on. You should not join him in sorrow. But it's part of the process. There's nothing wrong. Especially with you.

OK?

so you werent eaten by bourbon street!..nice to see you made it out!..

you aren't looking for work are ya darlin'? i might be able to hook you up.....

yeah we built this city, all facade work and cabinetry. very cool. i did a santa set this summer.

thanks for visiting, i feel speshul.

Where are you? I called and left a message. Please call back...

.come back!!!..i love youre style.

What's the deal with bunnies with flapjack hats?

What are you talking about? We have the same favorite position! How weird is that?? yeah.

"Sunday kind of love" by Etta James????????(that song rules)
You could have a parking lot roller derby...
Hardcore derby
aggro hot

if you win the lotto can i become one of your yes men

It was splendid to talk to you last night, even though I was half-alseep! Do you have any time Friday afternoon?

holy crap one of my friends got roped into Equinox way back when, holy pyramid scheme batman

..right when i went to chat with ya last nite, you went offline!..dammit..i want a malt soon.. ..see ya then..

Malt??? Amazed, you're a perv.

..contrary to popular belife im not in hawaii right now, im in saint paul myself..just for another month..we cowboys are true high plains drifters..i work in your area..there are a few places i guess you could be makin malts..ill have a chocolate with extra chocolate..

Can a cowboy inquire about the size of a cowgirl's spread?

i've seen your profile on the citypages thing. So i a way your famous

Your robot suit is so badass.