Before I get to the meat and potatoes of this post, I want to explain a few things first.
For the past 2 years, I've been with my little girl @kyubiikitsunekyu and it's been such a fulfilling relationship. Like no joke. I've grown as a man and as a daddy being with her. I've learned a lot but also realize I've still got much to learn. Being a hopeful, It was actually she who got me into SG and I was reluctant at first. Why? Well it's simple. Being a highly sexual, self aware, individual, there was an initial conflict of, and resistance to, being able to distinguish pornography from art.
I didn't want to be considered a creeper or a pariah if I started "following" or "commenting" on artist i appreciated. I was literally at odds with myself over something so trivial. Not to long after i joined i realized that while certainly these aspects exist: The random rogue elements and the inevitable abusers, the SG community is still strong and still a very supportive and nurturing one. One that I stand behind 100%.
With that said, it saddens me that I need to speak out on things that really have no place here. Because it's childish to even belittle myself by stooping to such a level where public shaming is necessary. Whether it's joking or not, harassment and blatant disrespect is never ok. It's rape culture
So, I will try and break it down for @sugadaddi and the rest of the peanut gallery in the back. (Of course what follows is just my opinion)
*SG =/= sugarbaby gallery. It's not cool to use this platform as your personal hunting grounds.
*unless a member approaches you on opportunities for bankrolling them, maybe its not cool to solicit? Most states in the US prohibit that sort of thing. Online should not make you exempt.
*if you still solicit and either do not get a response, or get a flat out refusal. Maybe don't continue to "persuade" them and continue to send them messages. That's just a respect thing. Usually the silence is indicative that you've offended or creeped them out and they want nothing to do with you.
*if someone tells you they are in a relationship, owned, already have a daddy, etc. Respect that. Period.
The fact that I've been silent for over a year, while you've repeatedly crashed and burned at making advances on my little, shows you that I never took you seriously. I still dont. It's a bit embarrassing really. And there's no wallet big enough to pay for your constant need for affirmation/validation, or the fact that that the only way you presumably get human interaction is to pay for it.
But you know what, no, I'm not gonna judge you. If that's your lifestyle and it affords you all the pleasures therein, so be it. Kudos and do you boo boo!
Just do me a favor, and probably a large population of the SG community and Maybe take a hint!
Maybe??