nata

i feel like a complete jerk..... so this evening i went out for coffee with some friends, and one of my friends asked me to go on a date with but i turned him down (polittely of course). he then proceeds to freak out on me saying how i always say i am looking for a nice guy (which i am) and when one comes around i turn him down. the thing is he really is not that nice to his girlfriends ( i have known him for about 5 years) and he is not very nice to his mom or his sisters, and in my opinion how a man treats females, mom, sister, and friends indicates how he would treat me. so now i feel sort of like a jerk cause he has liked me for a while but honestly i just dont feel it, and i wouldn't want to be lead on do i would not do it to any one else. so now my guy friends are pissed (my girlfriends are not, they dont like him) and think i am being a bitch, so i feel like a jerk.