I have no idea if I have posted about this before here but its applicable at the moment so I've decided to talk about it now. I have come to the conclusion that only 3 kinds of girls can be interested in me / flirt with me.
Type 1: lives very far away from me. Most of my serious girlfriends have lived in California which is problematic since I haven't lived in California since I was two years old. The long distance thing has been very difficult on me a number of times and as a result I have completely abandoned it barring someone comes along that changes all the rules.
Type 2: is underage. For no apparent reason underage girls seem to have a thing for me. Granted they might just have a thing for anything that breathes and is male since they are just starting to recognize their sexuality and all that hooplah but since I work in a mall I see a disproportiante amount of underage girls and become very awkward about the idea of them flirting with me since although some are far more developed than their age would indicate none are worth going to jail for.
Type 3: is in a serious relationship. Now this is the one that really gets me b/c for whatever reason it always catches me off guard. I'm not sure if I lack an ability to discern when people are actually flirting versus just being friendly but I'm fairly certain I haven't just dropped the ball on this one. I can't count the number of times I've flirted with a girl for hours over multiple occasions (typically girls who work in other stores in the mall) only to find out she's married. In fact 3 of the girls I flirt with at Hot Topic are married and I swear they flirt back. So either I'm delusional (which I in no way deny is a possibility though I am inclined to believe that if I am in fact delusional it does not apply to this particular issue) or I'm just easier to flirt with when the girl is dating someone. At the moment though its an extra fun problem b/c I'm developing a fairly serious crush on a girl who is pretty serious (though from the sound of things quite unhappy) with her boyfriend. To further complicate matters she is an employee where I work and I am a manager so even if she broke up with him I'd still be unable to make a move.
Well I'm not sure any of that made sense but I think it did to me. I even tried to make paragraphs which is something I am notoriously bad about not doing so um yay for line breaks.
addendum: do I desire the things I can't have b/c I can't have them or do the things I want just become unavailable as part of some greater cosmic joke?
Type 1: lives very far away from me. Most of my serious girlfriends have lived in California which is problematic since I haven't lived in California since I was two years old. The long distance thing has been very difficult on me a number of times and as a result I have completely abandoned it barring someone comes along that changes all the rules.
Type 2: is underage. For no apparent reason underage girls seem to have a thing for me. Granted they might just have a thing for anything that breathes and is male since they are just starting to recognize their sexuality and all that hooplah but since I work in a mall I see a disproportiante amount of underage girls and become very awkward about the idea of them flirting with me since although some are far more developed than their age would indicate none are worth going to jail for.
Type 3: is in a serious relationship. Now this is the one that really gets me b/c for whatever reason it always catches me off guard. I'm not sure if I lack an ability to discern when people are actually flirting versus just being friendly but I'm fairly certain I haven't just dropped the ball on this one. I can't count the number of times I've flirted with a girl for hours over multiple occasions (typically girls who work in other stores in the mall) only to find out she's married. In fact 3 of the girls I flirt with at Hot Topic are married and I swear they flirt back. So either I'm delusional (which I in no way deny is a possibility though I am inclined to believe that if I am in fact delusional it does not apply to this particular issue) or I'm just easier to flirt with when the girl is dating someone. At the moment though its an extra fun problem b/c I'm developing a fairly serious crush on a girl who is pretty serious (though from the sound of things quite unhappy) with her boyfriend. To further complicate matters she is an employee where I work and I am a manager so even if she broke up with him I'd still be unable to make a move.
Well I'm not sure any of that made sense but I think it did to me. I even tried to make paragraphs which is something I am notoriously bad about not doing so um yay for line breaks.
addendum: do I desire the things I can't have b/c I can't have them or do the things I want just become unavailable as part of some greater cosmic joke?
And awesome by the way.........