Is it really possible for man to have a lady friend, you know just a friend? I get my comfort talking, writing, philosophying with women. Why? Well first off, they (you) give me honesty, intelligence (mainly), frankness, comfort, and your ego is not getting in the way of your thoughts.
Hey, I like men. Winning for me is more of an evolution than "win at all costs." I think that being over-competive is an illness rather than a quality.
I like talking sports, politics, crime, anything that is fleeting and not very intimate, but once I bring up anything that emanates from the left side of my brain, I am stymied. The subject quickly changes. I can't ask a man, Hey, how are you feeling today. Many this seems simplistic, but so be it.
So, here is the real question: If I do have a girl friend (as I say, two words) I can I, being human, not harbor feelings of lust? Should I resort to treating here like most male friends, wish superficiality. How can I not enjoy her femineness and her tenderness, when this was my attraction to begin with. Can we be just friends and still can I enjoy you for what you are: a woman?
retraction: woman or girl friend should not be interchanged with one woman in particular. I am generally speaking.
for those snow bound, it is 60 deg and I have cold and will be tv-ing until the last informercial.
Hey, I like men. Winning for me is more of an evolution than "win at all costs." I think that being over-competive is an illness rather than a quality.
I like talking sports, politics, crime, anything that is fleeting and not very intimate, but once I bring up anything that emanates from the left side of my brain, I am stymied. The subject quickly changes. I can't ask a man, Hey, how are you feeling today. Many this seems simplistic, but so be it.
So, here is the real question: If I do have a girl friend (as I say, two words) I can I, being human, not harbor feelings of lust? Should I resort to treating here like most male friends, wish superficiality. How can I not enjoy her femineness and her tenderness, when this was my attraction to begin with. Can we be just friends and still can I enjoy you for what you are: a woman?
retraction: woman or girl friend should not be interchanged with one woman in particular. I am generally speaking.
for those snow bound, it is 60 deg and I have cold and will be tv-ing until the last informercial.
Maybe you need someone less "sensitive" than me? Or perhaps someone a little more gullible.