Mymiddle sister drives me insane.
I love her...but she asks so much of me....it hurts.
I give her money every month.....and she still puts me on a quilt trip and asks me for more......(I should add that she always has a refridgarater full of goodies...and Jordan has more toys than most children his age....) But she knows I make good cash....and she gas this way of making me think Jordan may go without....and I cnt allow that.
Her boyfriend gets out of jail mext month. He has been in jail...more than he has been out. I dont ever remember seeing him out of jail for more than a year.....for over 10 years....even more. Im being straight up about this. Its sad.
She called me tonight and said that he must have a full time job when he gets out...(part of his parol) she wants him to work with me and Todd. This is bad.
I said yes...but only if he gets licensed and insured as an independant contractor....thats a lil over 600 bucks.....not too shabby.
But I asked her...."sis....ummm...you do know that a buisness is only as good as its employees right?"
"yeah....so"
"Ummm....he has stolen from every job he has ever had hun...if he messes around here....he will lose his job...and we could lose our buisness. People are very sue happy these days. If he steals form a client .....(we often can go insde houses...)
"or doesnt follow our rules....the heat comes unto Todd and I"
she got shitty and said he would never.
But the truth is....well here is an example....when he got out of jail last time....he was working at a car place washing cars. He would boast about all the change and CD's he stole....
petty shit.
I work with thousands of dollars worth of tools.....and I work in and out of peoples homes.....
he has NO EXPERIENCE with working in construction....or working hard for that manner......
He has lived almost his whole life in jail....and has yet to prve himself. I feel so shitty for being afraid to hire him.....I know people can change......but Im so scared because so many employees have disrespected our buisness so much....that we have struggled at times and almost lost everything.....
Todd and I fired two guys the other day. We had too ....long story...but they were hurting the buisness and costing us LOTS of cash......its just us now...working our ass off....trying to get jobs done in time....and jobs done being correct and cosmeticly beautiful and weather tight......
but we never get a day off. we have yet to have an employee that did not screw us. And we are afraid to lose our buisness.....
I really DO NOT want to have to go back to stripping again to make "ends meet."
Im really worried.
But I feel that I must help my sister.....hence...helping her jail bait boyfriend.
I hope this guy.....means it this time when he says....."no more messing around...Im going straight this time."
because "this time" could mean my future.
augh....I had to vent. I didnt go out tonight....change of plans...it happens....
but Todd, Brian, and I made plans for a fun night in the future....at least I can count on that
.....
have a good night all....I have to take a sleeping pill and suck my thumb lol....Im a nervous wreck tonight.
I love her...but she asks so much of me....it hurts.
I give her money every month.....and she still puts me on a quilt trip and asks me for more......(I should add that she always has a refridgarater full of goodies...and Jordan has more toys than most children his age....) But she knows I make good cash....and she gas this way of making me think Jordan may go without....and I cnt allow that.
Her boyfriend gets out of jail mext month. He has been in jail...more than he has been out. I dont ever remember seeing him out of jail for more than a year.....for over 10 years....even more. Im being straight up about this. Its sad.
She called me tonight and said that he must have a full time job when he gets out...(part of his parol) she wants him to work with me and Todd. This is bad.
I said yes...but only if he gets licensed and insured as an independant contractor....thats a lil over 600 bucks.....not too shabby.
But I asked her...."sis....ummm...you do know that a buisness is only as good as its employees right?"
"yeah....so"
"Ummm....he has stolen from every job he has ever had hun...if he messes around here....he will lose his job...and we could lose our buisness. People are very sue happy these days. If he steals form a client .....(we often can go insde houses...)
"or doesnt follow our rules....the heat comes unto Todd and I"
she got shitty and said he would never.
But the truth is....well here is an example....when he got out of jail last time....he was working at a car place washing cars. He would boast about all the change and CD's he stole....
petty shit.
I work with thousands of dollars worth of tools.....and I work in and out of peoples homes.....
he has NO EXPERIENCE with working in construction....or working hard for that manner......
He has lived almost his whole life in jail....and has yet to prve himself. I feel so shitty for being afraid to hire him.....I know people can change......but Im so scared because so many employees have disrespected our buisness so much....that we have struggled at times and almost lost everything.....
Todd and I fired two guys the other day. We had too ....long story...but they were hurting the buisness and costing us LOTS of cash......its just us now...working our ass off....trying to get jobs done in time....and jobs done being correct and cosmeticly beautiful and weather tight......
but we never get a day off. we have yet to have an employee that did not screw us. And we are afraid to lose our buisness.....
I really DO NOT want to have to go back to stripping again to make "ends meet."
Im really worried.
But I feel that I must help my sister.....hence...helping her jail bait boyfriend.
I hope this guy.....means it this time when he says....."no more messing around...Im going straight this time."
because "this time" could mean my future.
augh....I had to vent. I didnt go out tonight....change of plans...it happens....
but Todd, Brian, and I made plans for a fun night in the future....at least I can count on that
.....
have a good night all....I have to take a sleeping pill and suck my thumb lol....Im a nervous wreck tonight.
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But that's my big brother instinct speaking. She's actually in love with someone I approve of. A rare case in this world.
by the way checked out your pics today. you're freakin' hot. i sure wish i lived in r.i. instead of bumfuck alaska. ughhhhh. too damn cold. too damn dark and too sonn till they ship us to iraq. later girlie and good luck. just be strong. do what this guy has had to do but do it better...