Single life blows, it's that time of year(one of many) that I'm wanting to be in a relationship.
I'm on RSVP and tinder looking to meet people. Contacted a few on RSVP and within 2 hours they all reject me. I'm sure if I had shredded abs and wearing my jocks they would be jumping at me(or most would) but because I have a beard and and no shredded abs i'm not their type even they what they were wanting or have things in common with them.
While on tinder I've been speaking with 2 local girls. Talking for around the same amount of time but after a while one mentions she has a kid, which is a deal breaker for me. It's frustrating that something like that isn't mentioned earlier on as I would have not bothered to make contact. Why? Because I don't want to be in a relationship with someone when they have someone else in the picture, it's just not me and I have nothing against others doing this. I'm just of the belief that a relationship is between two people.
The other girl is now not showing up in my tinder feed so i'm not sure if I deleted/blocked her by accident when trying to remove another contact or her account is no longer active. Annoying because I had quite a few things in common with her and I liked her.
Frustrating since it's not often well it's rare as seeing a dragon that I meet someone let alone get a reply and when I do I try my hardest but yet it's still not good enough. Having a beard doesn't make it any easier, since a large percentage of women don't like beard they prefer clean shaven. I love my beard but I think everyday about shaving it off just so my chance of meeting someone increases, even if by a simple 1%.
I was attracted to someone in Houston(last previous year and that), very attractive and definitely my type. She said she wasn't seeing anyone.. I saw a twitter post of hers and she mentioned a boyfriend. I asked her if she was seeing someone and reply was "kind of, here's here so yeah" Little bit later her twitter post removed and then posts pics of her with him. We had been talking for a very long time and made it known to each other how much we liked one another. I had planned a trip to go to Arnold classic in Columbus, Ohio and was going to stop in Houston just to see her. Moment I found that news out, I change from Houston to New York(sadly this trip is now cancelled due to funds). We still follow each other on instagram and facebook but she hasn't said a single word to me since that day. :S
The joy of being a male. ha :)
