mr_rick

friends...thought i needed them, maybe i dont. to me, my friends are very important, i'd do anything for them and usually do, at a drop of a hat. so why dont other people feel the same way about their friends?? why do they ask for help and im there, but when i need help, other things are more important for them?? why call me for advice then dont heed it?? why tell me my advice is right, then do the opposite or say i didnt know what i was talking about?? you know, ive been reading a book that was recently given to me. its a self help book and i instantly thought, gee thanks. but you know, its actually worth reading(i'll share the info on the book if anyone wants to really know). but one of the things the author tells you, which is the title of the book is "shut up, quit whinning and get a life" you know it makes a lot of sense. he says, if youre not happy with your job, quit, find a new one. if youre not happy with your home, move find a new one. not happy with your friends, find new ones. so i have been "doing" some changes. and i think friends are a good place to start. big changes are going to happen, and i already feel better for it just thinking about it. they may not like it, but im tired of being the real friend with no return. some of my friends may think im full of shit about it, but you know, im not the only one with a car, the only one with a home, the only one with hobbies. its give and take and im tired of giving.

so...ive vented, ive pissed people off im sure, so my job here is done. LOL