Hello dear SG Land, iam now quite some time in this awesome community and I really dont know what the hell I should or should not post here...
So I decided to talk about a thing that affected me my whole life. The satisfaction with my own body. For a long time it was a huge problem for me to like literally anything on me. And anyone who thinks that this is just a problem for women is definitely wrong, trust me. Men just dont show it that public or try to compensate it with a kind of false self confidence. Yeah, iam not the tallest guy, but lately I recognized that iam also not the smallest. And i dont have that much muscles, but iam glad that at least now I am working on it.
It brings me to the question why we always trying to find something negative about us instead of focus on the positive sides of our body and put them into scene? I can't find an adequate answer for such selfdesructive behavior. Maybe it's because iam still in the process of learning how to love myself. I dunno. But maybe some of you have similar experiences and I would be very grateful if you could share it with me 😄
Plus I have a little homework for the comment section:
What's the thing you like the most on your body? And why?
For me it's my youthful and healthy appearance. There was no day in my life I didn't had to show my ID card until now 😅 I like it because the most time of my life I had an extreme unhealthy lifestyle including drug addiction (iam clean for 3 years now), unhealthy food every day and constant laziness. And in spite of all iam still lookin good in my opinion. Others did similar things and now they look like ten years older than they really are.
