Sometimes life is difficult.
More specifically, relationships are difficult. I'm not convinced there is such a thing as an easy relationship. (Of course, I'm making sweeping assumptions about the nature of people though, rather than just the nature of people I've been out with.)
We all have double standards. We all have different definitions of "the worst thing you could possibly do to me". We use the words "I'm over he / she / it" differently. We all think there are best and worst times to discuss problems - hopefully we mainly agree that they need to be discussed rather than swept under the rug - but disagree on where or when.
Do this things ever get easier?
(Deliberately obscure in order to avoid incriminating any of the guilty parties. I'm not that bitter. Although having said that, nobody is reading, so, what the hell...)
More specifically, relationships are difficult. I'm not convinced there is such a thing as an easy relationship. (Of course, I'm making sweeping assumptions about the nature of people though, rather than just the nature of people I've been out with.)
We all have double standards. We all have different definitions of "the worst thing you could possibly do to me". We use the words "I'm over he / she / it" differently. We all think there are best and worst times to discuss problems - hopefully we mainly agree that they need to be discussed rather than swept under the rug - but disagree on where or when.
Do this things ever get easier?
(Deliberately obscure in order to avoid incriminating any of the guilty parties. I'm not that bitter. Although having said that, nobody is reading, so, what the hell...)