First I'm atheist and I don't really celebrate Easter, but I do love me some Easter candy. I'm also incredibly thrifty so I will be buying said Easter candy tomorrow when it's marked way down 
As alot of you know, the boy and I have been kicked out of his family because I am the anti-christ and my family lives 8 hours away, so we stayed at home all day. I guess we need to find some local friends who also don't have families so we have something to do on holidays that we don't go to my families for I don't being home all day, but I don't like it when it's m only choice...I'm weird like that.
Mostly what I missed today was going to my in-laws and eating...food at their house is always so good. I think it's just a tradition kinda thing that has some good memories tied to it. I, however, made a really good dinner for the boy and myself. Plus, I got to be home with the kitties all day...we even took them out on a little balcony and let them bask in the sun while we supervised. Also JW made me pancakes for breakfast...yummy!
JW missed seeing his neices and nephews. He calls them "his kids" and he adores them, but his family won't let him see them if he's with me, as in having me as his girlfriend. It sucks because he gets really depressed on days like today. He says he's fine, but I know the truth. Also, he gets so down that he seems to back slide a little as far as his family goes. He starts getting defensive if I try to remind him of why they aren't wonderful people that we should cater to, or that they are the ones who overreact to everything and disowned him. I always have in the back of my mind the question, "when will he finally succub to their wishes and just leave me to make them "love" him again?" I guess it's just scary to me to out of control of things. I will survive no matter what, but I love him and it would suck.
So yeah happy easter...I just love having days that remind just how fucked-up things can be
As alot of you know, the boy and I have been kicked out of his family because I am the anti-christ and my family lives 8 hours away, so we stayed at home all day. I guess we need to find some local friends who also don't have families so we have something to do on holidays that we don't go to my families for I don't being home all day, but I don't like it when it's m only choice...I'm weird like that.
Mostly what I missed today was going to my in-laws and eating...food at their house is always so good. I think it's just a tradition kinda thing that has some good memories tied to it. I, however, made a really good dinner for the boy and myself. Plus, I got to be home with the kitties all day...we even took them out on a little balcony and let them bask in the sun while we supervised. Also JW made me pancakes for breakfast...yummy!
JW missed seeing his neices and nephews. He calls them "his kids" and he adores them, but his family won't let him see them if he's with me, as in having me as his girlfriend. It sucks because he gets really depressed on days like today. He says he's fine, but I know the truth. Also, he gets so down that he seems to back slide a little as far as his family goes. He starts getting defensive if I try to remind him of why they aren't wonderful people that we should cater to, or that they are the ones who overreact to everything and disowned him. I always have in the back of my mind the question, "when will he finally succub to their wishes and just leave me to make them "love" him again?" I guess it's just scary to me to out of control of things. I will survive no matter what, but I love him and it would suck.
So yeah happy easter...I just love having days that remind just how fucked-up things can be
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JW will not leave you. I think his family will have to cave sooner or later. His mother has no real justification for not liking you and if she keeps up she will lose her son.
Hope you feel better.