I'm sure most everyone here can relate to me on this point...I am unswervingly attracted to the lifestyle of thrift-shopping and mods, and find it SO incredibly dfficult feeling like I fit in with any other crowd. So, my point is this: where the hell do people like us meet other people like us? I was told this site is good for that, but I've been on here for a year and not a single person has messaged me...so what about tangible places? Anywhere where "alternatives" (god I hate that expression) tend to hang?