sooo.. lots of people were confused...
I chose to move out of my situation because of the following factors:
1- I was in a 7 year relationship with no promise of a future
2- I felt unappreciated
3- I felt i was giving and getting nothing in return
4 - I was unhappy in the apartment period..I hated it
5 - I just felt like i hit a wall and there was nowhere to go
so i tried talking to the BF about it...and he just didnt have any answers or promise or anything uplifting to say..I wasn't asking for a ring i wasnt asking for children (well at least not right now) I just wanted a promise those things were to come..and he couldnt give me that..It's not fair to play wife and never get ot be wife..
So i moved out... BUT we didnt break up.. I wanted to work on alot of areas of my relationship..things have the potential to be amazing...but he gets lazy and caught up in his own emo world...
He needs to grow up...and he cant do that with me around...so i moved out to get my own place....wasnt easy...we have been together 7 years and have live with each other over 6 years! its a huge step...and i love him more than anything else...but i cant let him do that to me...i respect myself and i know what i can offer is amazing..and i want him to appreciate that..so i had to do what i had to do...
but i think now he thinks i dont love him anymore and hes getting harder and harder to deal with....
im so confused....and lonely and sad and hurt and i just want to curl up in a ball and cry...
I chose to move out of my situation because of the following factors:
1- I was in a 7 year relationship with no promise of a future
2- I felt unappreciated
3- I felt i was giving and getting nothing in return
4 - I was unhappy in the apartment period..I hated it
5 - I just felt like i hit a wall and there was nowhere to go
so i tried talking to the BF about it...and he just didnt have any answers or promise or anything uplifting to say..I wasn't asking for a ring i wasnt asking for children (well at least not right now) I just wanted a promise those things were to come..and he couldnt give me that..It's not fair to play wife and never get ot be wife..
So i moved out... BUT we didnt break up.. I wanted to work on alot of areas of my relationship..things have the potential to be amazing...but he gets lazy and caught up in his own emo world...
He needs to grow up...and he cant do that with me around...so i moved out to get my own place....wasnt easy...we have been together 7 years and have live with each other over 6 years! its a huge step...and i love him more than anything else...but i cant let him do that to me...i respect myself and i know what i can offer is amazing..and i want him to appreciate that..so i had to do what i had to do...
but i think now he thinks i dont love him anymore and hes getting harder and harder to deal with....
im so confused....and lonely and sad and hurt and i just want to curl up in a ball and cry...
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heatdude:
It must be very hard for you, a seven year relationship at your age is is hard. The problem with alot of young couples and i should know ive been there is that you haven't had the time to figure out what you really want in life nor has he, Your young heart will heal and in time you'll look back at this as one of life's many challenges...Good luck and stay strong. 
brooklynbabe:
