monicaisafreak

Dude. Chill. I know its difficult. I know its rough. Chill.
Then, once done chilling, look at the peeps involved with "disrespecting" and such. Its one thing to treat someone with respect whom enjoys physical pleasure, its another thing to treat someone like a slut. Always consider the source.
You have a beautiful child. Love the hell out of him and thats all you can really do.
I, too, meet beautiful people that fuck me over. It happens all over the world. People love each other and then fuck them over. Its the order of things.
Much respect for you.

SJ

I want to babysit for you

It seems to me like it's the looking that causes the problems. When someone good comes along, it is rarely because of something you did, just the timing and the fact that somebody will see you just being yourself and want you.
Stay sweet.

yes!!!

i can't wait to explore the world and people within.

That seems interesting. talk to me about it on aim sometime?

I'm way too tired to read all of that right now, but I promise I will. Looks interesting. Time for sleep now.

after the "there are other factors .... such as a child's temperament, feelings, perceptions, thoughts" bit in pg 5 you might want to talk about how these things might be a product of observational learning as opposed to a "natural (inborn) trait" The next paragraph, about the wild child shows that much of behaviour is learned, so why not mention it at the end of this paragraph, instead of just listing these other things without any mention of the way these things are developed. (I fail to believe that temperament is a purely biological thing).


The bit about the girl is missing some information. If the girl is the one who i think you are referring to, she never fully adapted, never learned to speak that well and spent the rest of her life in assisted living - she remained a "woman child" I not sure, but she may have always had difficulty understanding our culture's ideas about right and wrong. . . This is interesting because it seems to indicate that there is a narrow window of opportunity for the development of language and culture aquisition - this, i imagine, corresponds to some particular period of brain development. This might also be the time period in which children learn the most basic aspects of their culture's morality (including the do not hit mom part). bad influence or the lack of any observational learning at a young age might do more damage than it would later on in life.
you might also want to mention the possible influence of the media on a developing child. From what i remember, the evidence for the media's influence on a child isn't as strong as is commonly believed, but it might work to undo behavior patterns learned at home,

Yes it makes sense. You can't always have discussions about things that you like or know so it's good to be versatile enough to handle new subject matter. Cheers.

sounds like my day, where all I did today was sleep, take down Christmas decorations, sleep more, watched TV, slept more, and now here I am.

Everyone (at some time or another), MUST make their own porn.

I think Tom Robbins said something like, "People spend their whole lives without the gumption to star in their own movie, let alone direct it."

you should have broken the ice by asking a few of the girls if they wanted to be in a porn movie with you

Thank you, goddammit!! THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!

Was anyone with you?

ive once again learned the hard way that being drunk sucks. im glad that it only happens a few times a year. and i LOVE to dance. take me sometime!

Happy New Years!