I may have been too harsh.
FuckBuddy: Hey Sexy What's up?
(I'm busy online doing shit so I don't answer)
Fuckbuddy: So you don't want to talk to me anymore?
MCT: I never said that, I'm hyper busy doing 2 sets of classes at once.
FuckBuddy: I know we all get busy, but you could call me every once in a while. When I text you you don't even get back to me. U never respond and I don't know why? What did I do to you?
MCT: Seriously? I don't think you get it. I wake up, I study, I go to class, I study, I go to another class, I go to work, I study, I go to sleep exhausted wake up and do it again. My family barely see's me, and unfortunately you don't rate above my family when it comes to people spending time with me in my life. You're just a guy I occasionally sleep with. Occasionally I get online and check all my messages so you'll notice me on here but I am not always available to just shoot the shit with you.
MCT: I have no problems with you but the reason why this is a casual thing, is because I don't like having to check in with guys. I don't have the time or the patience or even the desire to deal with the hurt feelings. So if you want to see me or hang out with me, I guess you'll message me like you are now. I just don't have the time to sit and chit chat. Too much is going on in my life.
. . . Fuckbuddy signs off
I mean come the fuck on! This is my MO. I disappear frequently. 1) I love the mystery of it, but 2) most of the time I am legitimately involved in something (usually illegal or frowned upon) or I just don't want to deal with people. I am kind of socially bi-polar. When I am hyper and extroverted... people find me amazing. I'm witty and charming. On the flip side I go hermit and lock myself in my bedroom watching movies and barely showering. I don't even get dressed other than to take out the garbage. My living space becomes disgusting and then I snap out of it, go into a cleaning frenzy, shower, shave and get back into life.
As someone who's been in my life for 8-9 months I think he'd of gotten the pattern by now, but every time he acts like this is some personal attack. I'm not even being gross now I'm just BUSY. I'm trying to make something of myself. Get my shit together. Get the things I want.
BLAH. If he leaves it won't really matter. I just wanted to vent.
FuckBuddy: Hey Sexy What's up?
(I'm busy online doing shit so I don't answer)
Fuckbuddy: So you don't want to talk to me anymore?
MCT: I never said that, I'm hyper busy doing 2 sets of classes at once.
FuckBuddy: I know we all get busy, but you could call me every once in a while. When I text you you don't even get back to me. U never respond and I don't know why? What did I do to you?
MCT: Seriously? I don't think you get it. I wake up, I study, I go to class, I study, I go to another class, I go to work, I study, I go to sleep exhausted wake up and do it again. My family barely see's me, and unfortunately you don't rate above my family when it comes to people spending time with me in my life. You're just a guy I occasionally sleep with. Occasionally I get online and check all my messages so you'll notice me on here but I am not always available to just shoot the shit with you.
MCT: I have no problems with you but the reason why this is a casual thing, is because I don't like having to check in with guys. I don't have the time or the patience or even the desire to deal with the hurt feelings. So if you want to see me or hang out with me, I guess you'll message me like you are now. I just don't have the time to sit and chit chat. Too much is going on in my life.
. . . Fuckbuddy signs off
I mean come the fuck on! This is my MO. I disappear frequently. 1) I love the mystery of it, but 2) most of the time I am legitimately involved in something (usually illegal or frowned upon) or I just don't want to deal with people. I am kind of socially bi-polar. When I am hyper and extroverted... people find me amazing. I'm witty and charming. On the flip side I go hermit and lock myself in my bedroom watching movies and barely showering. I don't even get dressed other than to take out the garbage. My living space becomes disgusting and then I snap out of it, go into a cleaning frenzy, shower, shave and get back into life.
As someone who's been in my life for 8-9 months I think he'd of gotten the pattern by now, but every time he acts like this is some personal attack. I'm not even being gross now I'm just BUSY. I'm trying to make something of myself. Get my shit together. Get the things I want.
BLAH. If he leaves it won't really matter. I just wanted to vent.
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Let's say I sent you the "So you don't want to talk to me anymore?" note sarcastically and you took it as me being snippy with you, so you gave that same response: "I never said that, I'm hyper busy doing 2 sets of classes at once." The right way to respond to that would be more along the lines of... "oh sorry, if this isn't a good time to chat, I'll run off. drop me a note when a little bit of time opens up - I'd love to hang out again some time and take your mind off of class" but what he did was a fucking childish "you need to make me a priority" psycho/clingy move. So it's not "too harsh" given what preceded it.