Why, if you're in a good relationship, do you need to keep other people around that are/were attracted to you?
Does that mean the boyfriend/girlfriend isn't good enough?
Does that mean the boyfriend/girlfriend isn't good enough?
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sammarie:
i've been there. i noticed in another blog that you said he teases you. that might be a part of it. my ex did that. he would tease me and make me feel terrible about my body and my, well, everything. most of that was because of his own insecurities. and that made positive attention from other people really welcome. without that the little self esteem i did have would have been completely destroyed. the guy im in a relationship with right now makes me feel truly beautiful. and i find that it doesn't really matter if anybody else finds me attractive. i don't want or need that attention any more. i don't really know where to guide you with that. just that i do understand. 
nickguy:
Always bumps the ego up a little bit. Most people are into that.