PLEASE HELP
OK GUYS & GALS THIS IS THE SITUATION & IM PISSED. I know this is a lot but please....
i have a car, a white nissan sentra, and also a black prelude. There is a problem. The cars are not owned by me. I have spent lotsa money on the prelude as well as the sentra but i do not own either of them. I need an honest opinion from ALL of you. Even you bastards that send me friend requests and then never say anything at all too me, reply or i will block u! Ok back to the story. My boyfriend (ahem fiance, have to get used to that word) owns the cars. Both were bought for him by his mother. He has been letting me drive the sentra everyday as if it were my own. And he has also let me play with the prelude and pour some of my dreams, for my own, into his (for example, the turbo).
we have a problem, you see, the sentra now has about 149K miles on it and is on the brink of dieing, not only b/c the timing belt etc was supposed to be changed 49K miles ago but also b/c the oil changes are not as frequent as they should be. (we spend a lot more money and time on the prelude than we would like to admit) Oh yes and I cannot forget it has a problem with the shocks also. everytime i drive over a part in the road that is slightly raised my front right wheel drops.
all of a sudden i'm having trouble starting the car. our mechanic says the ignigtion is going, then we have him look at it and he says: the car is fucked b/c of there are compression problems, and etc. so basically a new motor OVERDUE. today i couldnt get the thing to start (by the way, when it is cold outside it starts right up, when its warm i cant start it, today was warm) i had to have the boy come pick me up. we had a conversation about a week ago agreeing that both of us would pay half for the new motor and labor. today it was a different story. keep in mind, i DO NOT own either of the two cars. he wants me to pay for all of the work, he said that he spends a lot more money on the prelude than i, and more on it than the sentra period. he said because i drive it everyday and dont have a monthly car payment then i should be ok with paying for the new motor. in a few months we plan on buying a truck together and selling this car....so im like whatever, im not dumping 1200+ dollars into this piece of shit so you can sell it and get a profit of 4K (remember he didnt pay for it, so he's just making $$$ really)i told him that he would have to put me on the title with him or give me the title completely. since he is not willing to pay for a new motor and plans to sell it, which he cant do without spending money on a new motor i think this is fair, or he should give me my money back plus something out of the money he makes if i pay for the work entirely. am i wrong for thinking this???? i need an opinion b/c i am about to flip on him if he argues the fact that i havent had to pay him to drive it or make a car payment to anyone, so that is justification.......blah blah blah
PLEASE HELP
i hate being upset it makes me want to
OK GUYS & GALS THIS IS THE SITUATION & IM PISSED. I know this is a lot but please....
i have a car, a white nissan sentra, and also a black prelude. There is a problem. The cars are not owned by me. I have spent lotsa money on the prelude as well as the sentra but i do not own either of them. I need an honest opinion from ALL of you. Even you bastards that send me friend requests and then never say anything at all too me, reply or i will block u! Ok back to the story. My boyfriend (ahem fiance, have to get used to that word) owns the cars. Both were bought for him by his mother. He has been letting me drive the sentra everyday as if it were my own. And he has also let me play with the prelude and pour some of my dreams, for my own, into his (for example, the turbo).
we have a problem, you see, the sentra now has about 149K miles on it and is on the brink of dieing, not only b/c the timing belt etc was supposed to be changed 49K miles ago but also b/c the oil changes are not as frequent as they should be. (we spend a lot more money and time on the prelude than we would like to admit) Oh yes and I cannot forget it has a problem with the shocks also. everytime i drive over a part in the road that is slightly raised my front right wheel drops.
all of a sudden i'm having trouble starting the car. our mechanic says the ignigtion is going, then we have him look at it and he says: the car is fucked b/c of there are compression problems, and etc. so basically a new motor OVERDUE. today i couldnt get the thing to start (by the way, when it is cold outside it starts right up, when its warm i cant start it, today was warm) i had to have the boy come pick me up. we had a conversation about a week ago agreeing that both of us would pay half for the new motor and labor. today it was a different story. keep in mind, i DO NOT own either of the two cars. he wants me to pay for all of the work, he said that he spends a lot more money on the prelude than i, and more on it than the sentra period. he said because i drive it everyday and dont have a monthly car payment then i should be ok with paying for the new motor. in a few months we plan on buying a truck together and selling this car....so im like whatever, im not dumping 1200+ dollars into this piece of shit so you can sell it and get a profit of 4K (remember he didnt pay for it, so he's just making $$$ really)i told him that he would have to put me on the title with him or give me the title completely. since he is not willing to pay for a new motor and plans to sell it, which he cant do without spending money on a new motor i think this is fair, or he should give me my money back plus something out of the money he makes if i pay for the work entirely. am i wrong for thinking this???? i need an opinion b/c i am about to flip on him if he argues the fact that i havent had to pay him to drive it or make a car payment to anyone, so that is justification.......blah blah blah
PLEASE HELP
i hate being upset it makes me want to
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for the price of a new motor, you could probably find a cheap car that will last at least 6 months to a year.. just an option.