so i met this girl. i really like her so far. one thing...she is married. he knows she dates girls and ive even met him but its still something im having a hard time getting around. its nothing serious at this point, still getting to know each other. thing is, what if one or both of us develops stronger feelings...oi vey. of course i finally find a lady i like enough to talk to more than once and shes f n married. shes also younger than me. which is something i dont do and havent ever done. only by about 2 yrs but still.
what is your opinion of dating someone married if the spouse knows?
what is your opinion of dating someone married if the spouse knows?
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missymalice:
there's nothing wrong with it as long as everyone knows what's going on and is okay with it. but if you're feeling hesitant about it, odds are you wouldn't deal with it well emotionally. if it's something you have a hard time dealing with, you might be better holding out for someone else. everyone has their own standards and comfort zone. nothing wrong with that. 
missred:
i feel the same, if everyone knows and its not some sneaking around and lying type of thing then go for it. ive just never been involved in that situation so its a new experience thats why im hesitant. i can handle it, its the others that im afraid wouldnt be able to. im just playing it by ear at this point. thanks for the input =] its nice to hear it from other people as well so i dont feel as crazy =p