missnight

i understand that you are sorry and i can accept your apology for the things you said. although, i still think what you are doing is wrong. getting ruggar fixed is great, and it's a first step. but, i really don't think you should keep all the babies. i understand you guys have become attached to them and believe me - i know how hard it is. i have fostered dozens of cats, sometimes for years at a time, only to give them up when someone adopts them. it's hard to say goodbye, but i always know it's for the best. i don't see a problem with keeping ruggar and maybe one other cat. but, if you're having financial trouble and can't properly take care of them, you really should find a home for them that can. i read that you got a job and that is awesome! but, five cats?? i have five, and it costs me around $150 a month just for basic care. just please think this over seriously. it really is for the best if you adopt them out. i am really just trying to help you. LankaKitten and i are very concerned about the situation and we really just want to see the best thing happen for everyone concerned, including the kitties.

[Edited on Aug 09, 2005 8:47AM]