my boyfriend....er... my former boyfriend/friend, the father of my child is leaving in about a week to Africa. We don't know when he can come back. When he comes back, he won't be my boyfriend anymore.
Nothing personal. He just doesn't love me. He thinks of me as a really really close friend..... who he has sex with occasionally (???) I'm...
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I don't believe that he won't come back. Even if it is to see his child- I hope you don't get too upset yet. Maybe he won't come as soon as you would like, but he'll be along eventually.
It will be challenging to go down the road that is ahead of you,but you can and will do it.
It sucks to hear stories about how others put in so much work for their partners, then to get screwed later on down the road. I'm a firm believer in hitting the road if it looks like the relationship is more trouble than it is worth. My better half thinks I give up to easily, but one thing I don't want to do it waste my time for someone else. I've seen too many women (and men) go throught that. She is hurting, but the man sounds like a jerk and she'll finally get to live life her way after all those years.