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Tomorrow's Friday! Wheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee....

We get paid, and get to go to Rocky Point Friday evening.

The drama has cleared up, although I feel like scratching the bitches eyes out that created this mess for us. I'm just glad it's all over and we can move on.

Well, basically what happened, was this whore my husband used to work with couldn't keep her legs closed. She was having an affair with a co-worker (her husband also worked for the same place) and was eventually accused by inmates of sleeping with the guy during the graveyard shift. So the company made them take lie detector tests. This chick was so psycho, I knew from the beginning I didn't like her or trust her, but eventually thought of her as a friend. I still knew that I had to watch out for her, basically because she had no morals. Anyway, during her lie detector test, she named at least 5 other people that she was "inappropriate" with during work hours. One of them was my husband. When he finally told me what was going on, I went through a lot of emotions. I didn't know what to think. I knew my hubby wouldn't do anything like that, but there's still that little thing in your head that's saying "what if?" I feel bad, because I think I really stressed him out during a lot of this. I just was so confused. I couldn't understand why she would implicate other people during a lie detector test! Thinking back now, I know why. She was really a damn psycho. It wouldn't surprise me if she manifested these things and really believed them to be true. She was the kind of person who had to have constant 100% attention. When she and my husband worked together and were friends. I used to tease that they fought like bro & sis or hubby and wife. She would get pissed at him for one reason or another, and thinking back now, it was when he wasn't giving her all of his attention. Paying attention to another co-worker. I remember talking to him on the phone at work sometimes, and she'd be in the background being so loud and obnoxious. I think she was doing it to say, "I'm here and you're not and I'm so fun, neener neener neener." But they were friends, he'd give her hugs, talk to her about problems and so on and so forth. She was always very sexual, and that did annoy me sometimes. Some things I thought were inappropriate for her to talk about with my husband, but thinking that they're friends and I'm secure in my relationship and trusting, if she wants to talk about her sex life in front of him, then okay, I'll deal with it. So anyway, today, my husband cleared the polygraph test and we can move on. He took one a week ago, that came back inconclusive because of some problems with the control questions. From what I've read, these are designed to trip the subject up. Well, the PD was holding out on completing his clearance to offer him a job pending the outcome of the investigation. So far, the two people who've taken the test so far have cleared it. The other 3, I'm not sure when they have to do their's but I'm sure they're all being put through this for no reason and it's all a waste of their money paying for these tests. This girl was so fucking psycho! It all started because she was fucking this other guy at work. She was partying 3-4 days a week with him, going out to the bar, getting drunk and messing around with him. All while her husband and 2 babies were at home. Her oldest is the same age as the twins, 2 1/2 (now) and the youngest just turned 1. I feel like calling her husband up and telling him what kind of a person he's married to, but I guess that's really spiteful, and pretty much just evil. But I still feel like having a confrontation with her. I still want to hear her try to explain why she said such a thing in the first place, especially when she claimed to be my friend. You know, the first time I talked to her, it was a confrontation. She was a member on the site here, and joined after hubby talked to her all about the site. It was before I became a member, and would still log on under hubby's account and check stuff out. Anyway, I came across a ton of stuff she'd written in her journal and his journal that I didn't like. She talked about fucking married men, fucking a co-worker, named hubby in lots of the posts as being the finest guy she worked with and on and on... I was very uncomfortable with it and wanted to tell her to stop. So I talked to her, and what she said made some sense. She like to tease my hubby, and like many of you who have him as your friends know, he's very self-conscious about his looks, even though he is the hottest guy EVER, and just wanted to get a rise out of him. The married man she fucked she said was when she was in high school or just out of high school or something like that... But I decided at that point I better try to make her my friend or she might try something with him. I think she was playing me in some way too. She needed for her self-esteem, to make me feel insecure. She needed Hubby's attention and every other male's attention she worked with too. So, like I said a while back, go with your gut on feelings you have on people.

Hope everyone has a great 4th of July!!! My kids are soooo excited to see the "booms" and so am I.

Now, to get to the homework!!!