So when a woman who has a financial benefit to tell you she loves you and you want to believe it. I can be flow boy and just take what ever I can get without being pushy. I can try to be pushy and stand a good chance of busting a beautiful bubble and return back to a where was. What should I you do? What I would like is an opportunity to be at least friends and maybe more.
So I heard a coworker of mine was single 3 weeks ago or so. I don't know her all that well really. I never made any sort of effort to date her or let her know I was interested or anything. She is so awesome. The coworker thing kind of got in the way. Not because I was worried about my job but because if I was rejected I wouldn't want to see her everyday. Suffering from some lower self esteem of late. Anyway this evening I did happy hour with other coworkers. As we leaving the outside patio bar I said good bye and ducked into the inside bar to use the bathroom. Anyway when I left the bar there she was doing the new exciting relationship hugging and kissing cute stuff with a guy who looks a lot like me only a few inches shorter. She was so into the guy she was with she never even saw me and I just didn't feel it would be right to bust in. Bummed me out a bit though. Should I be a horny dog chasing everything? Have know regrets about not giving every single opportunity a shot, but with that comes a share of rejection. There doesn't seem to be an easy balance of accepted wanted aggressiveness. So I have to be hit women will tell you that confidence is attractive and any sort of lack of confidence is unattractive. But when you are aggressive you stand a very good chance of being completely rejected. Blow off rejection and remain confident and aggressive is the key to a healthy dating life. Easily said.
So I heard a coworker of mine was single 3 weeks ago or so. I don't know her all that well really. I never made any sort of effort to date her or let her know I was interested or anything. She is so awesome. The coworker thing kind of got in the way. Not because I was worried about my job but because if I was rejected I wouldn't want to see her everyday. Suffering from some lower self esteem of late. Anyway this evening I did happy hour with other coworkers. As we leaving the outside patio bar I said good bye and ducked into the inside bar to use the bathroom. Anyway when I left the bar there she was doing the new exciting relationship hugging and kissing cute stuff with a guy who looks a lot like me only a few inches shorter. She was so into the guy she was with she never even saw me and I just didn't feel it would be right to bust in. Bummed me out a bit though. Should I be a horny dog chasing everything? Have know regrets about not giving every single opportunity a shot, but with that comes a share of rejection. There doesn't seem to be an easy balance of accepted wanted aggressiveness. So I have to be hit women will tell you that confidence is attractive and any sort of lack of confidence is unattractive. But when you are aggressive you stand a very good chance of being completely rejected. Blow off rejection and remain confident and aggressive is the key to a healthy dating life. Easily said.
