Okay, so Jen said she would call tonight, and I figured she got off at Five, but by seven thirty she hadn't called yet, and I was bored, so I called her. I started the conversation with " I thought we were going to hang out tonight", which we never actually said, she just said she would call. Then we got into this whole crappy sorta argument where I was getting mad with her for hanging out every damn day with her best annoying friend Lisa, who she's with right now at the beach instead of hanging out with me. I told her we haven't been together in almost two weeks, but she sees Leisa every day. She was getting annoyed and stuff. It just seems like her attitude has changed a lot since she's been hanging out with her friend. Tonight is the perfect night to hang out, it's nice and cool outside, and I would have loved to be with her, but she's with her friend Lisa. Again. She said she would call back later, but I doubt it. Did I go about things the wrong way? Maybe I was too aggressive. Usually a conversation like that ends up with the girl and I going our seperate ways. Ugh. I hope not. Keep your fingers crossed.
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crazygrrl:
Maybe an apology for the misunderstanding is in order instead of just letting the girl and you part ways. You may not understand the situation fully (and the same can be said with her of you) but at least you can let her know where you stand. What she chooses to do with that information, you have no control over.
monet:
What? It's been nearly 2 weeks and you guys haven't hung out? That really sucks, and I don't think you were wrong at all. And sweetie it hurts my chest to hear you say how tonight would have been perfect for you guys to hang out. I remember when I was dating someone, and there would be certain days or nights that I would just smile at the thought of us being together at that moment. But he would either be working or chose to smoke up with his friends. I hated it so much! I know how you feel. I hope everything gets better sweet baby! 