here is a catch up. I have been working at my new job about 3 weeks. I am dispatching for the local cab company. not the most fulfilling job, but it is a paycheck. I have a packet processing to go into the local national guard. I'm hoping they will accept me. that way I can start wearing the uniform again, and in a year I can do paper work and back door my way into the active side again, I have been doing the insanity workout program. wanting to get my body looking good for summer. I've had to take a few weeks off from that, because I pulled a muscle. I have also been seeing a great girl, and we are taking it nice and slow to make sure we are good together before jumping into anything too serious. So. all in all things are on an upswing 