Everyone is still sick, I'm still very dangerous to vampires 
I have been making this soup from tons of garlic and onions and cayenne pepper. It makes the nose run and the body break into a sweat a little. I keep eating it to try and scare away the illness. I have work to do Thursday and Friday and just can't be sick.
My mom really upset me. She has done some stuff to try and prevent me from getting my dad. She wants to leave him in the home he is in. It is the place that left him for 48 hours with the bladder infection and waited until he was almost dead before calling 911. If they had taken him to the doctor sooner he would not have had the strokes which have really left him a mess.
She emailed my brother behind my back and begged him to throw a fit and threaten to move out if I take my dad in. She knows since I went back to school I can't afford my house if I don't have my renters. She is telling me it is for my own good. She said he is too much work and I can't do it and so on and so forth. Thanks mom. She did the same thing when I was 16 and decided I was going to have my baby and keep him. She was so mad at me and told me over and over how I couldn't do it. 12 years and the boy is still alive and well. I guess I did it so far huh? And amazingly he was born healthy and not addicted to crack too. Can you believe it?
Well, the battle for dad is on now. I have explained to her so many times how I would not feel right letting him die in a fucking nursing home. It is so sad we never do see eye to eye. Weird how that is, that is why people say you can choose your friends but you can't choose your family. My mom is not a bad person, but she and I butt heads on pretty much everything.
I am going on Saturday down to see him and going to have a face to face with her and my brother and see if we can't get this straightened out. Weird isn't it? Usually it seems in a family no one wants the old person, here I do want him and my family is trying to keep me from having him. My mom has SO the wrong idea about me. Sad, she sees my goth look and my "weird" friends and always thinks the worst. I guess maybe she thinks we're going to sacrifice him or something. Who knows what goes through her head?
We'll see what happens over the weekend.
I have been making this soup from tons of garlic and onions and cayenne pepper. It makes the nose run and the body break into a sweat a little. I keep eating it to try and scare away the illness. I have work to do Thursday and Friday and just can't be sick.
My mom really upset me. She has done some stuff to try and prevent me from getting my dad. She wants to leave him in the home he is in. It is the place that left him for 48 hours with the bladder infection and waited until he was almost dead before calling 911. If they had taken him to the doctor sooner he would not have had the strokes which have really left him a mess.
She emailed my brother behind my back and begged him to throw a fit and threaten to move out if I take my dad in. She knows since I went back to school I can't afford my house if I don't have my renters. She is telling me it is for my own good. She said he is too much work and I can't do it and so on and so forth. Thanks mom. She did the same thing when I was 16 and decided I was going to have my baby and keep him. She was so mad at me and told me over and over how I couldn't do it. 12 years and the boy is still alive and well. I guess I did it so far huh? And amazingly he was born healthy and not addicted to crack too. Can you believe it?
Well, the battle for dad is on now. I have explained to her so many times how I would not feel right letting him die in a fucking nursing home. It is so sad we never do see eye to eye. Weird how that is, that is why people say you can choose your friends but you can't choose your family. My mom is not a bad person, but she and I butt heads on pretty much everything.
I am going on Saturday down to see him and going to have a face to face with her and my brother and see if we can't get this straightened out. Weird isn't it? Usually it seems in a family no one wants the old person, here I do want him and my family is trying to keep me from having him. My mom has SO the wrong idea about me. Sad, she sees my goth look and my "weird" friends and always thinks the worst. I guess maybe she thinks we're going to sacrifice him or something. Who knows what goes through her head?
We'll see what happens over the weekend.
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hope you feel better soon
hope you and your strong indominable will win out and you get your dad so you can make his last moments happy with you
meh that sucks what your mom is pulling
Heres hoping all works as it should.
*hugs*