Friday Nov 17, 2006

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*I POSTED THIS IN A THREAD IN THE DATING SECTION*


hmmm well i think you may have tken the point entirly wrong...

if i may:

I am obviously upset becasue I LOVE HIM so dearly.
Thebadn doesnt bother me at all. in fact he is like the only one in that band that gives a shit so I can take your point there..

However. I didnt think the whole. how r we going to work out the show and the weekend. (we see eachother only on weekends).

Now i would have jsut settled with a nice.. "perhaps not this weekend. I have practice on fri, and the show is on sunday." kind of thing..

however i think he thought i may have been upset with that so he went with the " I DONT know how the fuck we can do this this weekend. I dont wanna pay too much money."
ICK.. you know what as i write this i rea;ize that it is soooo small.

I guess all in all its not the band or his bad mood.

I love this man and i just wanna make it work. ... and yes by avoiding all conflict... LOL

i would never want to be with someone who couldnt follow their dreams and i would never get in the way of someone lifes events.

i hope we get throught this problem.
big_bull:
good luck, the only thing I have to offer is if you love the man for who he is and he is willing to change the things that don't make the relationship work then stick it out. If he is so unwilling to change or compromise that it always leads to conflict then you may want to cut your loses before it becomes worse. wink
coldfusionx:
It sounds to me like it's time for the "talk". Take some time and think about exactly what you want to say to him and then when you feel comfortable with it have a discussion with him about the things that are bothering you and how you feel about him.

Both of you need to be on the same page of the relationship so to speak and I think thats the best place to start. smile

If that goes well, he will know that you love him, but have a few issues with the relationship and that you want to make it work. Hopefully it will make you both feel better.

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