Okay I need some help here. I kinda already know the answer but I need some affirmation for going against my principles.
Here's the deal:
Just met a girl today: Very, very hot and (seemingly) interested in me. The problem is she is a recovering junkie. Two weeks away from her last encounter with the dragon. She is seeking treatment and is trying to get off the junk but she does have that "addict" mentality thing going.
Now if she were a Tweeker I would have no problem, blow her off and go to the next one...but my sexual experience with junkies is non-existant (Though I have known some junkies on other levels that I could deal with okay).
This would be a sex thing not (I don't think) a relationship thing...and I DO love them "Chaos" women (I'm sure no one on this site is a "Chaos" Woman...wink wink)
So what do you think: should I go for it or run away?
Here's the deal:
Just met a girl today: Very, very hot and (seemingly) interested in me. The problem is she is a recovering junkie. Two weeks away from her last encounter with the dragon. She is seeking treatment and is trying to get off the junk but she does have that "addict" mentality thing going.
Now if she were a Tweeker I would have no problem, blow her off and go to the next one...but my sexual experience with junkies is non-existant (Though I have known some junkies on other levels that I could deal with okay).
This would be a sex thing not (I don't think) a relationship thing...and I DO love them "Chaos" women (I'm sure no one on this site is a "Chaos" Woman...wink wink)
So what do you think: should I go for it or run away?
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honestly.
i wanna say run, but I also wanna say..give the girl a chance.
but then you just sleeping with her isnt going to help her recover, and might even push her back into it.
ya never know.
good luck
From a practical standpoint...don't carry a lot of cash and hide the credit cards. The nicest person in the world can turn into a common thief in a heartbeat if the monkey is pounding on their back. Even if you find yourself 6mos or 6 years
from now seeing the same person, just remember "recovered" addict does not mean "cured". Whether it's booze or horse, the old demons can come back any time.