I have insomnia and was cruising myspace when I came across a bulliten my friend had posted. I thought I wodl post it here since some of the questions got to me....
25 deep questions that will really tell you something about me. Not stupid questions like "what is your favorite lip gloss?"
1. What is more difficult for you, looking into someones eyes when you are telling someone how you feel, or looking into someones eyes when they are telling you how they feel?
Listening to them tell me how they feel. Telling someone what is on my mind and what I'm thinking and feeling is easy for the most part. But to hear someone telling me how they feel about me scares me....
2. Think of the last time you were REALLY angry. WHY were you angry?
The last time I was truly angry was at Mark for disrespecting me and D**** as husband and wife, parents, friends and his son....
3. You are on a flight from Honolulu to Chicago non-stop. There is a fire in the back of the plane. You have enough time to make ONE phone call. Who would you call?
This all depends... Who am I with? If I'm alone I would call D**** to tell him I love him and to have him tell C**** that her mommy loved her very much and to tell him where the journal that I write in for her is.... Plus he would call all my family and friends without me asking him....
If I'm with D**** and C**** I would call my mom to tell her the same thing that I love her.......
If for some reason I'm with all of the above then I would call M******.... ( That question got to me for some reason.... I teared up thinking about it...)
4. You are at the doctor's office and he has just informed you that you have approximately one month to live. Do you tell anyone/everyone you are going to die?
I wouldn't tell everyone. I would tell D**** of course, M******, Doc, Binx, my mom, Stepdad, aunt, sisters, brother, Adopted brother. and my dad. You know the obvious reasons why I would tell most of them. The others is because they deserve to know and they wouldn't wait for me to come visit them. They would come see me..... The people that I don't tell I don't want them to treat me differently. I don't want them to pity me or look at me through tears. I tell my family and close friends cause even though they would be sad they wouldn't treat me like I was dying.... (Just for the record I don't like this question either)
(2) What do you do with your remaining days?
Well I would write more in the journal I have for C****... Take a million more pictures of me with everyone I love and care about... Write my will.... Write letters to the people I have mentioned above with pictures included so they can have a peice of me when I leave that's just for them and live it up every day to the fullest. Plan my own funeral cause I would want it to be a party, a celebration of my life, like they used to be not what funeral's have become. And this may sound weird but I would want to harvest some of my eggs just in case D**** wanted more kids "with me.." Then I would donate my organs that were useful when I'm gone... I would run on no sleep just to do everything I've always wanted....
(3) Would you be afraid?
At first I would be horrified and depressed but I think I would get over it quickly so that I could live the rest of my days happily and peacefully...
5. You can have one of the following two things: trust/love. Which do you choose?
Honestly I don't think you can have one without the other....
6. You are walking down the street on your way to work. There is a dog drowning in the canal on the side of the street. Your boss has told you if you are late even once more, you are fired. Do you save the dog?
I'd save the dog. I can't just walk by and pretend like I don't see him. Plus I would hope my boss would be understanding about it. If he/she wasn't then I wouldn't really wnat to work for them anyways....
7. You are unfaithful to your spouse/significant other. Do you tell him/her? Why or Why not?
First and foremost I would never cheat. There's no point. If you feel yourself straying then you don't need to be in the 1st relationship anyways...
BUT
for the sake of answering the question yes I would spill the beans and suffer the reprocussions of it... When there is no honesty there is no relationship. And if you really love each other you can try to work through it. If you can't you can still salvage the friendship part of your relationship after the hurt stops... If you keep it inside it will haunt you and sour your relationship anyways....
8. Your best friend confesses that he/she has feelings for you more then just friendship. He/she is falling in love with you. What do you do/say?
Well I'm married and happily so so nothing would become of it...... So if my best friend were to say something like that to me we would have to have a long talk...
9. Think of the last person who you know that died. You have the chance to give them 1 hour of life back, but you have to give one year of your life. do you do it? The person was D****'s papa (grampa)
Honestly thinking about it I wouldn't. I know that sounds harsh and it sucks because none of us got to say goodbye. But if he would have had one more hour MiMi would have watched him Die. PaPa went in his sleep and had he been given one more hour he wouldn't have been alseep when he died.... Thats what everyone wants. To go at home in their sleep and that's what PaPa got.... I wouldn't want to mess that up....
10. Are you the kind of friend that you would want to have as a friend?
Yes.
11. Does love = sex?.
No... Love and sex mean to very different things in this day and age. Personally I feel if I don't love someone I won't have sex with them. But that's just me....
12. Your boss tells your co-worker that they have to let them go because of work shortage, and they are the newest employee. You have been there much longer. Your co-worker has a family to support and no other means of income. Do you go to your boss and offer to leave the company? Honestly no. That sounds mean but I have a family too and bills to pay...
13. When was the last time you told someone HONESTLY how you felt regardless of how difficult it was for you to say? What did you have to tell the person?
Umm there's a lot and I don't want to share.... Sorry...
14. What would be (or what was) harder for you to tell a friend, you love them or that you do not love them back? Well I love all of my friends. That's not a hard thing to say...
15. What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give up? Why would it be hard to lose?
My child.... Self explanitory...
16. Excluding romantic love, when was the last time you told someone you loved them and they told you they loved you? Who were they? My adopted brother
18. Imagine. It is a dark night, you are alone, it is raining outside, you hear someone walking around outside your window. WHO do you wish was there with you?.
Well D**** would be here of course. DUh! I don't have to wish for anyone....
19. Would you give a homeless person CPR if they were dying? No because I'm not CPR certified and with my luck I would probably end up killing them instead of saving them. Sounds harsh but you don't realize how easy it is to kill someone giving them CPR until you take the class and fail it for that reason....
20. Who do you trust the most out of your friends?
D****... Yes he's my husband but he's also my best friend... I tell him things I don't tell other people... Then Marna and Binxie...
21. You are holding onto your grandmothers hand and the hand of a newborn that you do not know as they hang over the edge of a cliff. You have to let one go to save the other. Who do you let fall to their death?.
I don't like this question. Why do I have to let go of either? And to be honest I never go anywhere without D**** and if I do I'm probably with Marna so one of them would help me in this situation...
22. Are you old fashioned?
In some areas...
23. When was the last time you were nice to someone and did NOT expect anything in return for it?.
Seriously everyone always exspects something. And for those of you who say no you don't well your liars. If your nice, courteous and respectful to someone you exspect the same from them... Maybe not the exact same treatment but you exspect them to be nice back...
24. Which would you choose, true love with a guarantee of a broken heart, or never loved at all? Why?
One of my favorite quotes answers this one... It is better to have loved and lost then to have never been loved at all... Love is a learning experience that helps you grow as a person. Now here's a real question Without love are you truly a person?
25. If you could do anything or wish anything, what would it be?
For the wish portion of this question: Well I get 3 wishes right? That's how these things work... #1. To have my family and myself disease free and healthy #2. Every time I spent a 20 dollar bill a 50 dollar bill would replace it. #3 would be a huge wish... To have my family and friends feel confident about who they are and what they look like because honestly guys I wouldn't change any of you for anything. I love you just the way you are....
For the do anything portion of this question: my second wish would take care of most of the things I want to do... The things I want to do that don't involve money are model, and own a succesful hair and body peircing salon.
25 deep questions that will really tell you something about me. Not stupid questions like "what is your favorite lip gloss?"
1. What is more difficult for you, looking into someones eyes when you are telling someone how you feel, or looking into someones eyes when they are telling you how they feel?
Listening to them tell me how they feel. Telling someone what is on my mind and what I'm thinking and feeling is easy for the most part. But to hear someone telling me how they feel about me scares me....
2. Think of the last time you were REALLY angry. WHY were you angry?
The last time I was truly angry was at Mark for disrespecting me and D**** as husband and wife, parents, friends and his son....
3. You are on a flight from Honolulu to Chicago non-stop. There is a fire in the back of the plane. You have enough time to make ONE phone call. Who would you call?
This all depends... Who am I with? If I'm alone I would call D**** to tell him I love him and to have him tell C**** that her mommy loved her very much and to tell him where the journal that I write in for her is.... Plus he would call all my family and friends without me asking him....
If I'm with D**** and C**** I would call my mom to tell her the same thing that I love her.......
If for some reason I'm with all of the above then I would call M******.... ( That question got to me for some reason.... I teared up thinking about it...)
4. You are at the doctor's office and he has just informed you that you have approximately one month to live. Do you tell anyone/everyone you are going to die?
I wouldn't tell everyone. I would tell D**** of course, M******, Doc, Binx, my mom, Stepdad, aunt, sisters, brother, Adopted brother. and my dad. You know the obvious reasons why I would tell most of them. The others is because they deserve to know and they wouldn't wait for me to come visit them. They would come see me..... The people that I don't tell I don't want them to treat me differently. I don't want them to pity me or look at me through tears. I tell my family and close friends cause even though they would be sad they wouldn't treat me like I was dying.... (Just for the record I don't like this question either)
(2) What do you do with your remaining days?
Well I would write more in the journal I have for C****... Take a million more pictures of me with everyone I love and care about... Write my will.... Write letters to the people I have mentioned above with pictures included so they can have a peice of me when I leave that's just for them and live it up every day to the fullest. Plan my own funeral cause I would want it to be a party, a celebration of my life, like they used to be not what funeral's have become. And this may sound weird but I would want to harvest some of my eggs just in case D**** wanted more kids "with me.." Then I would donate my organs that were useful when I'm gone... I would run on no sleep just to do everything I've always wanted....
(3) Would you be afraid?
At first I would be horrified and depressed but I think I would get over it quickly so that I could live the rest of my days happily and peacefully...
5. You can have one of the following two things: trust/love. Which do you choose?
Honestly I don't think you can have one without the other....
6. You are walking down the street on your way to work. There is a dog drowning in the canal on the side of the street. Your boss has told you if you are late even once more, you are fired. Do you save the dog?
I'd save the dog. I can't just walk by and pretend like I don't see him. Plus I would hope my boss would be understanding about it. If he/she wasn't then I wouldn't really wnat to work for them anyways....
7. You are unfaithful to your spouse/significant other. Do you tell him/her? Why or Why not?
First and foremost I would never cheat. There's no point. If you feel yourself straying then you don't need to be in the 1st relationship anyways...
BUT
for the sake of answering the question yes I would spill the beans and suffer the reprocussions of it... When there is no honesty there is no relationship. And if you really love each other you can try to work through it. If you can't you can still salvage the friendship part of your relationship after the hurt stops... If you keep it inside it will haunt you and sour your relationship anyways....
8. Your best friend confesses that he/she has feelings for you more then just friendship. He/she is falling in love with you. What do you do/say?
Well I'm married and happily so so nothing would become of it...... So if my best friend were to say something like that to me we would have to have a long talk...
9. Think of the last person who you know that died. You have the chance to give them 1 hour of life back, but you have to give one year of your life. do you do it? The person was D****'s papa (grampa)
Honestly thinking about it I wouldn't. I know that sounds harsh and it sucks because none of us got to say goodbye. But if he would have had one more hour MiMi would have watched him Die. PaPa went in his sleep and had he been given one more hour he wouldn't have been alseep when he died.... Thats what everyone wants. To go at home in their sleep and that's what PaPa got.... I wouldn't want to mess that up....
10. Are you the kind of friend that you would want to have as a friend?
Yes.
11. Does love = sex?.
No... Love and sex mean to very different things in this day and age. Personally I feel if I don't love someone I won't have sex with them. But that's just me....
12. Your boss tells your co-worker that they have to let them go because of work shortage, and they are the newest employee. You have been there much longer. Your co-worker has a family to support and no other means of income. Do you go to your boss and offer to leave the company? Honestly no. That sounds mean but I have a family too and bills to pay...
13. When was the last time you told someone HONESTLY how you felt regardless of how difficult it was for you to say? What did you have to tell the person?
Umm there's a lot and I don't want to share.... Sorry...
14. What would be (or what was) harder for you to tell a friend, you love them or that you do not love them back? Well I love all of my friends. That's not a hard thing to say...
15. What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give up? Why would it be hard to lose?
My child.... Self explanitory...
16. Excluding romantic love, when was the last time you told someone you loved them and they told you they loved you? Who were they? My adopted brother
18. Imagine. It is a dark night, you are alone, it is raining outside, you hear someone walking around outside your window. WHO do you wish was there with you?.
Well D**** would be here of course. DUh! I don't have to wish for anyone....
19. Would you give a homeless person CPR if they were dying? No because I'm not CPR certified and with my luck I would probably end up killing them instead of saving them. Sounds harsh but you don't realize how easy it is to kill someone giving them CPR until you take the class and fail it for that reason....
20. Who do you trust the most out of your friends?
D****... Yes he's my husband but he's also my best friend... I tell him things I don't tell other people... Then Marna and Binxie...
21. You are holding onto your grandmothers hand and the hand of a newborn that you do not know as they hang over the edge of a cliff. You have to let one go to save the other. Who do you let fall to their death?.
I don't like this question. Why do I have to let go of either? And to be honest I never go anywhere without D**** and if I do I'm probably with Marna so one of them would help me in this situation...
22. Are you old fashioned?
In some areas...
23. When was the last time you were nice to someone and did NOT expect anything in return for it?.
Seriously everyone always exspects something. And for those of you who say no you don't well your liars. If your nice, courteous and respectful to someone you exspect the same from them... Maybe not the exact same treatment but you exspect them to be nice back...
24. Which would you choose, true love with a guarantee of a broken heart, or never loved at all? Why?
One of my favorite quotes answers this one... It is better to have loved and lost then to have never been loved at all... Love is a learning experience that helps you grow as a person. Now here's a real question Without love are you truly a person?
25. If you could do anything or wish anything, what would it be?
For the wish portion of this question: Well I get 3 wishes right? That's how these things work... #1. To have my family and myself disease free and healthy #2. Every time I spent a 20 dollar bill a 50 dollar bill would replace it. #3 would be a huge wish... To have my family and friends feel confident about who they are and what they look like because honestly guys I wouldn't change any of you for anything. I love you just the way you are....
For the do anything portion of this question: my second wish would take care of most of the things I want to do... The things I want to do that don't involve money are model, and own a succesful hair and body peircing salon.
your skin is like porceline (sp?)... you are absolutely beautiful.. i love this pic ^^^^^
and.. thank you for the sweet things you said. Its made my day.
xoxo
Onie