Tuesday Sep 21, 2010

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need advice: have you ever had to break up with a friend?...I have this person in my life who is icredibly mentally and emotionally abusive towards me.....i don't know why i have let this go on for so long, maybe I'm a glutton for punishment.....but after a week of arguing back and forth they have just said the meanest, most awful things to me and I truelly wish to never speak to them again.....and believe me I have tried to fix the situation
the problem is the next day I always have a guilty feeling and feel like I should call and try to bury the hatchet and it always blows up in my face and they saw rude things to me again and I end up crying.....
I need to just end it without feeling guilty
I try to understand why I let people treat me like that.......maybe because of my past: my mother beat me and emotionally abused me as a child.....my ex hit me and emotionally abused me.....why the hell would I let a friend say that shit to me???!!!
any advice on how to move on from a shitty friend would be greatly appreciatedmad
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butcherbaby:
You need to get out now.....and don't be fearful of their reaction....If anyone is hitting you,you should call the police. Men who abuse woman are cowards and have no balls.

Never be afraid to stand up for yourself....from what I can see,you are a nice person who will have little problem finding someone who will treat you good....Don't let anyone suck you in with their bullshit!

If they tried shit like that with a guy,they would get their ass handed to them and they know it...women are easy prey for them.

Those guys are not men,they're pussies.

Good Luckwink
debased_pixie:
Awww hun, I feel bad for complaining about my situation, at least my friend well yeah "cares for me", I think thats part of the problem.

Thankyou and I hope that you figure out a way to move on from them soon.

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