melantha

I was going to make this post, even before I saw Dagger's similar one. Sorry that I sometimes take a little while to reply to comments and emails.. I do eventually get to them though, and it's never personal. I work screwy hours, and if I get sucked into something online before work, I'll probably miss my bus. It's enough of a risk checking my email at work, let alone here (assuming the site isn't blocked), and I'm dead when I get home, so you wouldn't understand me anyway, most likely. And I'd ramble more than normal. Same reason goes for why I usually only update once a week, but I also don't have much to say usually. I try to keep up on journals, but I'm sure I miss stuff, and some people there's so much I'd have to catch up on already, only just meeting them recently. Not that I won't try to figure stuff out, but yah, if I ask stupid questions or anything, I'm sorry for that too.

.. and as much as I hate to be a bitch, I'm refusing every pending friend request. It shouldn't be too much to ask that you speak to me first, and there's too many people to keep emailing this stuff to. I can't post it in every entry, but it is on the left-hand side that I don't like it. If we haven't spoken, and I have no way of knowing you (even being in the same group is enough, generally, but I have to know), you will be rejected. I've lost my patience with this. ... I'm not THAT hard to talk to, and why add me if you don't want to speak to me? it's a simple courtesy most of us ask for here.

*shrug* I'm not upset, but that is a pet peeve of mine. Anyway, maybe I'll manage another entry later this week, but for now, that's all I've got.