I can't understand it. I told myself that when I moved I wasn't going to get into any kind of relationship. Well...naturally as fate would have it I start to become really attracted to someone and we date for a little while before I leave. I really start to fall for her. Obviously, my plans are set so I can't just change that.
Well...I moved and we've been chatting almost daily; I can't get her out of my head. She says she's interested, but she also seems the type to just keep everyone happy. She talks about coming out here to visit in January, but I'm not sure how serious she is. I find myself thinking about her all the time...wanting to talk to her. She just...doesn't seem as interested in talking to me sometimes. I get the idea she's dating someone else back in AZ.
Maybe it's just my insecurity because I've been burned before and all I can think is that maybe she's with someone else.
I guess I can't really ask for anything more. Long distance relationships don't really work. It just...figures that I finally start to find someone and I move...any thoughts? Advice?
Well...I moved and we've been chatting almost daily; I can't get her out of my head. She says she's interested, but she also seems the type to just keep everyone happy. She talks about coming out here to visit in January, but I'm not sure how serious she is. I find myself thinking about her all the time...wanting to talk to her. She just...doesn't seem as interested in talking to me sometimes. I get the idea she's dating someone else back in AZ.
Maybe it's just my insecurity because I've been burned before and all I can think is that maybe she's with someone else.
I guess I can't really ask for anything more. Long distance relationships don't really work. It just...figures that I finally start to find someone and I move...any thoughts? Advice?
doolittle:
I am a bit of a hopeless romantic, but even I have to say that when it comes to long distance, somebody is bound to be hurt. There's always one part of that equation which has their heart set on it more then the other person. It's a huge gamble. I guess wait and see what happens in January, but if it were me, I would let this die. The only way it would be worth it is if things got so heavy that you honestly see this being LOVE, not just like or lust.