I know I know I know....
I never get on the bloody internet!!!!!
Lots has happened and himself has hinted at some things that occurred recently, now that I'm not so homicidal I'll fill you in.
It was our first year anniversary last week and on wed we and two mates went to a (fantastic) gig in birmingham. The problems started when S (see The_Reverend's blog) let it slip to B (blot on my otherwise perfect life) who happens to be my man's ex, that we were all going.
B hates the music being performed, even making T leave a gig after 10 minutes. B hadn't yet met me and seemed desperate to.
I have turned down repeated requests to meet up (see wants to be 'mates' with T) not because I had a problem with her being an ex, more of a problem with her being a cow.
Everytime she shoves her nose into T's life it causes upset to him and I'm quite frankly sick of it!
So, back to the gig. She shows up, S and her bloke J pop out to say hi (they're still friends, again, not a problem to me, we're all grown ups here... well nearly all). B starts to dance around like a loon in the doorway right in my eyeline. I found it highly amusing as she looked daft in her spotty skirt.
Let's put it this way, she's a cheap thrift store girl, I shop in Bond street.
Anyway... B was aware that T didn't want to talk to her, it was our night out for the anniversary (B was also aware of that) and as soon as the gig finished we headed back to the car to wait for S and J to follow. Which they did.
With her. and her new bloke, who was just there for show, trust me, it was ALL for show.
She comes over to T's window and talks to him as if he's 3 years old, 'Are you sure you're alright... give me a hug' and proceeds to launch herself through MY car window.
T unimpressed. Me more so as she's giving me the look of 'I know his secrets and you'll never be as good for him as I can'.
Two words
FUCK OFF
I know this man better in one year than she did in seven, We don't need the bullshit, Cosmo survey reading psycho- babble she believed was how you run a relationship.
She came into our evening together and put her stamp on it purely to see what I was like, to cast judgment, as she has stated she wanted to vet any new girls 'to make sure they're good enough'.
Well B, you came, you saw, you pissed me off because you upset T.
She better stay away because I will not have her belittle what I have with T just because she wasn't the right one for him. If my ex (we were together for 5 years) did what she's been doing for the last year (oh yes, this is ongoing and oh, yes they've been apart for 2 years) T would have every right to break his nose! I couldn't care less who nick is seeing/married to now, all I care about is that he's happy and behaving himself. To be honest, I don't even know where he is and that's fine. That's normal.
She is tuck in a loop and she just needs to break away and get a life, maybe try having a real job, stop fixating on other people's lives for a while. I would gladly be friends with her if she didn't treat T the way she does, by not showing him respect, she shows herself up. Even if she wasn't his ex and just one of the gang I STILL wouldn't want to know her.
Bleurgh.... deflating now.
She's still a conniving bitch though.
I plan on growing old disgracefully with this man, smoking and shagging until we drop. He is where my home is and no-one else will change that, only the two of us can. I just want her to realise that.
T wants to be friends with her, has tried to be, but she always has to say or do something that makes it harder and harder for him. believe it or not I don't discourage it, as T has to work out if she enhances his life as a mate in any way. Personally I can't see how she would, no real friend would behave as she has regardless of how a relationship ended. It affects S and J as both B and myself have met them through T and I care deeply about both of them. B stays in touch with S and I don't discuss B with them as I refuse to be branded a bitch.
We saw S and J over the weekend and As i gave S a hug, she clamped on and wouldn't let go. So as she spent a couple of nights with B, I can only guess that she got moaned at the whole time about me distancing her from T, or something equally stupid.
I've run out of steam....
Thanks for sending such lovely messages to T this week, he really needed it.
Love Love Love
I never get on the bloody internet!!!!!
Lots has happened and himself has hinted at some things that occurred recently, now that I'm not so homicidal I'll fill you in.
It was our first year anniversary last week and on wed we and two mates went to a (fantastic) gig in birmingham. The problems started when S (see The_Reverend's blog) let it slip to B (blot on my otherwise perfect life) who happens to be my man's ex, that we were all going.
B hates the music being performed, even making T leave a gig after 10 minutes. B hadn't yet met me and seemed desperate to.
I have turned down repeated requests to meet up (see wants to be 'mates' with T) not because I had a problem with her being an ex, more of a problem with her being a cow.
Everytime she shoves her nose into T's life it causes upset to him and I'm quite frankly sick of it!
So, back to the gig. She shows up, S and her bloke J pop out to say hi (they're still friends, again, not a problem to me, we're all grown ups here... well nearly all). B starts to dance around like a loon in the doorway right in my eyeline. I found it highly amusing as she looked daft in her spotty skirt.
Let's put it this way, she's a cheap thrift store girl, I shop in Bond street.
Anyway... B was aware that T didn't want to talk to her, it was our night out for the anniversary (B was also aware of that) and as soon as the gig finished we headed back to the car to wait for S and J to follow. Which they did.
With her. and her new bloke, who was just there for show, trust me, it was ALL for show.
She comes over to T's window and talks to him as if he's 3 years old, 'Are you sure you're alright... give me a hug' and proceeds to launch herself through MY car window.
T unimpressed. Me more so as she's giving me the look of 'I know his secrets and you'll never be as good for him as I can'.
Two words
FUCK OFF
I know this man better in one year than she did in seven, We don't need the bullshit, Cosmo survey reading psycho- babble she believed was how you run a relationship.
She came into our evening together and put her stamp on it purely to see what I was like, to cast judgment, as she has stated she wanted to vet any new girls 'to make sure they're good enough'.
Well B, you came, you saw, you pissed me off because you upset T.
She better stay away because I will not have her belittle what I have with T just because she wasn't the right one for him. If my ex (we were together for 5 years) did what she's been doing for the last year (oh yes, this is ongoing and oh, yes they've been apart for 2 years) T would have every right to break his nose! I couldn't care less who nick is seeing/married to now, all I care about is that he's happy and behaving himself. To be honest, I don't even know where he is and that's fine. That's normal.
She is tuck in a loop and she just needs to break away and get a life, maybe try having a real job, stop fixating on other people's lives for a while. I would gladly be friends with her if she didn't treat T the way she does, by not showing him respect, she shows herself up. Even if she wasn't his ex and just one of the gang I STILL wouldn't want to know her.
Bleurgh.... deflating now.
She's still a conniving bitch though.
I plan on growing old disgracefully with this man, smoking and shagging until we drop. He is where my home is and no-one else will change that, only the two of us can. I just want her to realise that.
T wants to be friends with her, has tried to be, but she always has to say or do something that makes it harder and harder for him. believe it or not I don't discourage it, as T has to work out if she enhances his life as a mate in any way. Personally I can't see how she would, no real friend would behave as she has regardless of how a relationship ended. It affects S and J as both B and myself have met them through T and I care deeply about both of them. B stays in touch with S and I don't discuss B with them as I refuse to be branded a bitch.
We saw S and J over the weekend and As i gave S a hug, she clamped on and wouldn't let go. So as she spent a couple of nights with B, I can only guess that she got moaned at the whole time about me distancing her from T, or something equally stupid.
I've run out of steam....
Thanks for sending such lovely messages to T this week, he really needed it.
Love Love Love
VIEW 5 of 5 COMMENTS
Congrats on your one year anniversary! Me and my boyfriend (who is a member of SG, but is sooooooo inactive) just had our seven year. I guess October is a big month for love, because I know three other couples who have October anniversaries!
BTW, did you really work with Keanu Reeves? I adoooooore him.
Women are fucking nutty.