It's 7:58 do you know where your children are? I know where my girlfriend is. That's the best I can offer. She's afraid that when my ex comes back from college for thanksgiving I will cheat on her. Her fear is well based. I as well am afraid I will cheat on her.
oninotaki:
The answer to this is simple, dont do any booze or drugs and even if you really like your ex as a person still treat her like crap(you know the way your supposed to treat all your regular friends) Basically dont do anything that will mess up your judgement and dont treat her like she more specail then bob the lawnnut down the street.
galvagin:
I suppose you don't need to be told that you *oughtn't* cheat on her (being well-versed in Kant and various Old Dead White Guys). In the rare cases where this has come up for me, I find it instructive to reflect upon the fact that there are reasons why my exes are ex and my non-ex isn't.