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Sunday Apr 25, 2004

Apr 25, 2004
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I was reading a thread where a boy says he is uncomfortable because a friend of him used to use "gay" in a pejorative way.
It remembers a story which happened one month ago.
I was debatting by emails with some feminists about sex work. On of them told me "you must be a sex worker with a pimp to talk like that".
It was a embarrassing situation. Being a sex worker is not a problem for me (I'm not but you see what I mean). But I know she want to insult me with this sentence. Then I have to say I was not and to justify myself ; and so I have to dissociate myself from the sex workers (it can mean for them I was ashamed to be considered as a prostitute).. It was very uncomfortable.

I have the same problems in the streets for example. If a man says me "you are a slut", I don't know what to say. "slut" is just an insult for him not for me smile
so I usually say "yes and so what ?".


today it is a sunny day. I wear a jeans, a Fred Perry tee shirt and shoes. Normal I will say. BUT.... I have no bra frown

In the street a man is looking at me since 5 minuts. When I'm near him, he says "wonderful".

Ok it is not rude. ok he can say "nice tits" or sentences I used to hear. But I don't a man who judge my body. It is really disturbing. I'm not a piece of meat. I'm really fed up with all that shit.

I don't know if a man can understand it is not flattering, even he is called Brad Pitt. I want to be alone mad
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nirrti:
I like your response to being called a slut. Even though they might think they've insulted you, later they might realize you weren't insulted smile

And I'm sorry Inga wouldn't respond to you. I'm sure she appreciates your interest, and I don't think it would be hard for you to read in Enlgish. Maybe if you pester her to from the get-go, she can try to get her new book published in French smile

I will tell her about you if I get to speak with her in the Fall.

Hope you feel better, don't let random losers get you down.

kiss
Apr 26, 2004
clara:
I think sometimes people sense when we want to be ignored and it actually draws them toward us. Perhaps they find the situation less intimidating that way.
Apr 26, 2004

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