Well guys there is this girl i have liked for almost 5 years and she works with my man now. I just found out she is a lez and my man told her i liked her and she didn't really know what to say other than she is into relationships...It really sucks because I really really like her and I don't know what to do. she don't really know me so me and my man are gonna hang out with her sometime so she can get to know me and hopfully she will see that im all good. Even if we don't get together I will b happy with just hanging out with her sometimes...and to make matters worse my man thinks it is funny to keep talkin to her about me and he don't realize his little joke is making me out to seem like an obsessed freak and it is pissing me off. I told him to stop because she now prolly thinks im a weirdo...and the thing is that all the stuff he is telling her he is pulling out his ass...yeah they might b true but i never said it to him or her so personally I would like for him to stop...I LIKE HER A LOT BUT I AM HAPPY WITH FRIENDSHIP! 
deanna:
yeah he has no right to butt into that type of thing - i would tell him to back off....but just let me give you a word of advice....dont do a 3some with someone your in a relationship with. end of story.