I haven't been able to relax in over three years. I know it's partly my job, but it's also mostly my social life. I just haven't been truly happy in a while. I don't know about most people but I feel that home is where I would rather be. I don't truly enjoy my job, but it is partly fulfilling. But it is depressing to me that since my social life really has no meaning, I almost look forward to going to work. I need a change soon, to find meaning outside of my job....or its going get the better of me.
toolgirl:
It's hard to be happy with what you have. But I agree that looking forward to work can be bad! 
stryka:
certainly sounds like it's time to shake things up! Stagnation sucks. Good luck 