Man, that was LONG. I just skimmed it, but it was interesting. I also think you get outside pressure to date OR stick with "nice guys" from friends and family. Another thing I hate is when you're with a nice guy, who everyone adores, and no one can believe they have any flaws, or that they're hard to live with.
I was a geek magnet in high school for some reason. They tried to sell themselves as nice guys (not that I was interested in nice guys at the time! ), but in reality, some of them were just jerks who happened to be geeky and unpopular.
I was a geek magnet in high school for some reason. They tried to sell themselves as nice guys (not that I was interested in nice guys at the time!