So I am faced with a delima I am going to fight full custody for my son. What gets me in the middle of jam is I don't want to take my son away from her but her parenting skills are lacking . Don't get me wrong I am still learning myself but rather parties than spend time with her son. She became homeless for a month had plenty of offers to get off the street and jobs she never took any of them in fact she goes on social media and says she is bored and wants to party instead then when I forced her to see my son she makes it about her and that my son doesn't want to come home with me when he is pissed at her for not spending time with him . I never seen my son so mad that he refuses to talk or look at anyone but when I ask if he was mad at me he says no then I ask if he is mad at mom he gets quiet it breaks my heart to see him this way. I just want the best for him but in her care he will not get it. But of course she feels attacked because all I want is on paper we have equal opportunity and not she has more custody than I do. Idk what's right and what's wrong anymore society always sides with the mother and with the issues today about blacks and whites it doesn't help the issue . I will forever love interracial dating just don't want what's going on to be a part of the court system