maineville

So today i came across alot of people who are experienceing what i'm going through. Everyone is breaking up with their other half now i've been in a relationship for 3 years just for it to come to an end in the dumbest way. Now supposely she was tired of all the arguing but what is a relationship without arguing we all argue with our other half just because we have different view points but to me arguing shows that you care enough to try and make a point. But i don't think that was the reason why she did what she did to me she might have wondered where our future was going now i've always tried to create a better future for us the dumbest thing i ever done was have her work with me and because of our break up i lose my promotion at work and things go way down hill for me. Ok so i've made everyone side with me at work because they believe i got screwed over but thats besides the point i loved this girl and now she is acting "different" hanging out with the one person who threathened her was going to hurt her which I had to come down to her work with her father to protect her and this "friend" also stalked her and she is friends with her. Now i wonder what is really going on? Was she really the right girl? I mean i was about to marry this girl give my life to her and she is being weird. So her father dosen't want me to give up on her he still talks to me trys to hang out with me and gives me advice tells me things about how she is doing and i know he tells her what i'm doing so he says we are on a temp break up. I don't know i mean i'm so confused i want a real relationship where i get treated with respect and not where i put forth the effort to make things work and they sit there complaining i want a real women who knows what they want out of life. Is that honestly so much to ask for?