what is it about human nature that allows us to communicate soooo well with those we have just met. you know what i mean. that crush you have....you tell them everything, you want to spend all of you time chatting away and trying to get into each others head. but somewhere there you start holding back. what causes that open line to just fold up??? i have experienced this twice lately with friends and it has me perplexed. i feel that when you are in a friendship (not just aquaintance) you kinda take on all the issues and anxieties of the person. the beautiful little quirks. and the evil little habits.
i always seem to be the one seeking out more that someone will give to me. the line always gets cut while i am still communicating. it kinda stings a little.
i swear i had a friend once who chain dated for just this reason. as soon as the funness and the communication stopped, she would leave them. according to her dating record this takes anywhere from 1-3 months.
so yeah...what is it like for you all out there. do you start to freeze up after a little while? why do you do it? do you learn that maybe you don't like the person? or perhaps you like them a little too much and you start feeling exposed????
maeda
i always seem to be the one seeking out more that someone will give to me. the line always gets cut while i am still communicating. it kinda stings a little.
i swear i had a friend once who chain dated for just this reason. as soon as the funness and the communication stopped, she would leave them. according to her dating record this takes anywhere from 1-3 months.
so yeah...what is it like for you all out there. do you start to freeze up after a little while? why do you do it? do you learn that maybe you don't like the person? or perhaps you like them a little too much and you start feeling exposed????
maeda
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schreck876:
I'm the nice dude that gets taken advantage of. For real. But I found me a good chic. And she rides too....that is a huge ass plus. And she doesn't care that I wear baggy jeans, hoodies and skate shoes when I got to the bar. And she likes all the music I like. And she likes it that I still have that "child" in me. And I think I should shut up now.
schreck876:
You know what? The chics you think that are the best can still get on your nerves. Oh can they.