Life is pain, and joy. A person must learn how to adapt to both or they may not survive this existence, and this journey we call life. I comfort myself knowing I have adapted, and nothing I have ever done, including losing a love, or finding a new love has ever been in vain...always learning, and growing. It is also safe to say I have spent a large part of my life in a perpetual state of confusion lol. Especially here lately. At times I think my head, and then my heart will explode at any moment. What to say, and then, what not to say. What to leave in, and what to leave out. What is too much, and what is not enough.