I think I figured out a solution to my lack of finding a woman to be with....Young hot girls. No, its not what you are thinking. Yes, being with young hot girls would be great, but that is not what I am talking about. I think I need to be seen with younger hot girls in public, nothing sexual or weird mind you, but to just been seen out with beautiful creatures would be scandelous and garner some attention. Maybe even feed into the whole older man/ bad boy thing. We'll see, it's just a theory at the moment. 
seeming taken always stirs up interest, too.