machete

so i am going to go on something of a rant right now.. im really not quite sure on how i feel about this but i do know that i dont understand.

first off... myspace is really weird to me.. i dont lurk.. that makes me feel even weirder.. i dont like to know about peoples lives unless they tell me.. bbuuttttt... sometimes i cant help it.. and today being bored i decided to check out some of my old friends from back home in oregon and cali. male and female... and 9 out of 10 .. they either already have kids or have one on the way. i was very very shocked at this. how could these 20 year old KIDS have kids of their own.. i mean knowing these people... i just dont understand.. and it almost made me sad.. i know a child is a blessing... which i have a hard time feeling like this about... but really.. i couldnt imagine having a kid right now... and these girls with guys that they haven't even known for more than a year.. and even more i could see how poeple feel about abortions.. but really there is free birth control out there that is available for any one.
i mean maybe im wrong in thinking this or maybe im a control freak and think to much into these things. but i have also seen this first hand with my older sister. and its not easy.. AT ALL... i just dont understand what happened here and for some reason its been on my mind all day. if i was into prayer i would be doing that for them right now... but im not.. so i guess i can just be the best friend i know how to be..
please tell me im not the only one here that thinks something is wrong with this