So I'm not complete naive. I'm well aware that if a guy actually wants to be with you, he will make it happen. That's probably the only thing that actually made sense in that incredibly awful movie He's Just Not That Into You, however, what's the point in doing everything in your power to seem interested, if you aren't? I get that whole 'I wanna get in your pants' mentality so yea, you do what you have to to get to that point. I just don't understand working that hard at it. It's been practically a year. A year of flirting, dropping hints and goofing around. Never has getting in my pants ever come up. So I guess, I'm confused. Is he honestly just trying to fuck me? Or what? Give me some advice! I have brothers, nothing you say is going to upset me. Honesty is far more important to me. Do not sugar coat it. I want and need to know.