Let me tell you guys a little story. Recently broke up with my ex-boyfriend of 7 months. He was drugging (weed), I know most people don't think of it as a drug...its just not what I want in my relationship. Anyways, I caught him and broke up with him. So the next night he decided to go out and get drunk (he's also a self-proclaimed alcoholic), although I had never seen him drink because that is also not something I want in a relationship. Well he gets drunk, comes home, fights with me and proceeds to physically assault me, puts an ashtray through my bay window, takes a hammer to my wall and trashes my house. The police are called, he locks himself in the house, they must break down my door with a battering ram and they remove him at gunpoint as he does not go quitely. Well, that's the last I heard from him. He was arrested and at the arraignment the court issues a protective order....thank god. Well, I hear from his ex-wife today that he has called her and he is staying in a shelter and everything that happened....IS ALL MY FAULT! Its my fault that he got drunk, my fault that he trashed my house doing thousands of dollars worth of damage and MY FAULT that he pulled my hair and choked me. Are you kidding me?? Does he really believe this crap! What is wrong with this picture? Im in shock and my head is spinning this is so unbelieveable. I was gonna recommend rehab when I approached the judge at the court date which is August 1st, but now that its ALL MY FAULT, I think jail time would be better. 