lustrous

I'm sorry guys.. seems like there is never any good news when it comes to me... I was up all night.. I gotta call from my Mother letting me know that my 16 year old cousin was in a wreck and killed instantly.. Please no matter what religion you are or whatever... keep the family in your thoughts and prayers.. This is a great loss for us... His older brother was 22 when he died in a wreck as well.. Drinking and driving.. that was almost 2 years ago. now this... Our emotions haven't had time to settle from loseing my grandmother in May... N the fact that my poor uncle has lost both of His sons at such young ages. I can't imagine what he is going thru right now.
or my Aunt.. or his twin sister..
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okay... im really pissed off and I need to rant a bit.. maybe it's just me but wtf is wrong with people..
I mean I know that it is hard to find the words to say to someone when they have lost a loved one but when you are hurting there are thing that shouldn't be said. such as:
1) Oh, well that's life..
2) life goes on
3) you'll have other babies
4) you just need to get over it
maybe I'm just out of my mind but I just have to wonder if they actually think before they speak or if they are just that cold hearted? ya know

I do want to thank all my friends who have commented below.... I have made such wonderful friends here..
huggzz and smooches...