Friday Jun 22, 2012

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Alright, so my question for the day is this:

What do u do when u find that one person who really does it for u in bed, but that's all it really is?

I mean, i'm very much a girl who won't stay in a relationship if it isn't physically satisfying. If that sounds bad, oh well, its my life, and i want to be with someone who can satisfy me.
But I've found a guy that is amazing, and does things to me and for me that no other guy has ever mangaged. But i don't think it'll ever be a relationship. We talked about it once, about a year ago, and i thought it might progress to there, but then it really didn't.

idk, thoughts would be appreciated.
valan_vicktor:
I would remember that sex is an awesome activity, no matter who it is with, but a person's compatibility is much harder to find. Plus, don't be afraid to show and work with a guy who may not know what he is doing. Sexuality can be learned while remaining just as pleasurable, yet chivalry and caring is something that can't be taught. Plus any true man would prefer you tell him how he can please you better in bed and not become upset.
luciddreamer:
I completely understand where ur coming from. truly i do. its just been my experience that even when i spell it out, sometimes, it just doesn't work. idk, maybe the thing is that i think i want a relationship, but i really don't. or maybe i'm scared to be in a relationship, so i find reasons for it not to work. and maybe the reason why its so good with this guy is because i know that he's already hurt me once, and i know there won't be a relationship, so i don't have to worry about getting hurt again.
wow, and here i thought that i had adjusted to single life well, and i just sound extremely jaded.
ODL!!!

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