luciddreamer

Ok, so here's a question. When it comes to guy code and girl code, what exactly r the guidelines? I understand that the code dictates that its not really cool to date the ex of a friend. But define ex...r we talkin ex-wife, ex-fiancee, ex-gf, ex-friend with benefits??? I mean, where's the line in the sand.

I believe that if there was no real relationship, like solid, honest, committed, been together exclusively for at least 6-8 months, then there should be some wiggle room in the code. Especially if its just a FWB that they're never gonna be with again cuz they've gotten married or something.

I've just never really understood the whole thing where girls think they have exclusive rights to a guy because they saw him first, or liked him first, or slept with him first...if the guy doesn't want them why should I be punished and not allowed to see for myself if something amazing could come out of it!

I mean, its not like I'm gonna go out and sleep with my best friend's ex-husband...cuz that would just be wrong. But why is a FWB off-limits? Why is a guy that tells me I was his first choice, but was unavailable at the time, off-limits? Why is a guy that my friend likes that doesn't like her but wants me, off-limits?

Am I just totally out in left field on this one, and all of u r reading this and thinking to urselves, "what a bitch!" Or do I have a valid point? I just don't know. Input would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.

Happy Hump Day!!!