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Why I dyed my hair rainbow

Dec 23, 2015
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I feel like I get this question a lot. I feel like I never have the right answer for when people ask me in it. But I want to share a personal story with you guys. But again.. This blog is personal. I've been dying my hair for about 10 years now. With colors all over the spectrum. When I turned 17 I started using more colors and filling out my head - basically some cool shit haha

When I turned 18 I started dating a boy. He was my best friend for a few years and we always had this .. Lingering sort of romance. I believed things were great at times. I believed that he loved me and never would hurt me. That he would yell at me because he loved me. That when he called me names for how I dressed it was because he wanted to protect me.

I was so naive. I had let this guy control every little bit about my life. What I wore, what I did, who I hungout with. And of course - my hair. He would often tell me that I did things to intentionally upset him. I don't see why this one was ever an issue but he would often complain that I didn't dye my hair to his standards.. Which eventually led me to dying it all black.

Fast forwarding a bit. We split up. I was crushed at first. Truly upset. Until I looked into our relationship and realized how unhealthy it was. I was embarrassed. I was upset at myself for not realizing the situation I was in.. While I was in it. And I swore to myself I would never be in that situation again.

About a week later I dyed my hair rainbow. Impulsive decision and easily one of the best I've ever had. It was a reminder to myself that I would never let myself be in that situation again. That no one owns me & therefor I do not owe them anything. A reminder to myself to do things that make me happy- even if it's something simple like a hair change

I'm sorry if this blog is a bit all over the place. But I did want to share this with you guys to raise a bit of awareness of unhealthy / focus relationships. I'll probably be retiring the rainbow soon and going for something else colorful and fun.. It's been an epic 3 years wifh if.

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taser:
I love the rainbow because it looks happy and sexy.  I also like it for the reasoning you outlined... it has meaning to you.  Don't ever let anyone suppress the beautiful person you are inside and out.  Shine always <3
Jun 17, 2016
manic:
I feel like maybe not everyone but A LOT of girls have to unfortunately go through an unhealthy relationship maybe not to your extent (a little different for everyone) but yo learn this hard lesson and rise above looking back into it and saying this was unhealthy and I will never let someone control me like that again. I know I did. And I'm glad, cause I've learned from it. It's nice to know others have gone through that too. 
Sep 29, 2016

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